She wants it missionary but i'm fed up with that,its doggy or nothing i told her?

Question

My girlfriend and i have some real childish arguments, the latest being a picture frame on the wall. Its one of those big frames where you can put 10 photos in the back of it and show them off all in one picture. Well she wants it to be 10 photos of her missionary work she done in africa some years back, i am a lover of dogs and i think that some pics of doggys would look much nicer. She wont compromise and have 5 of each so i told her NO! its doggy or nothing am i being unfair?

Answer 1

i prefer dogs babe......!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(if ya get me???)

xxx

Answer 2

LOL...that's umm a tricky one! Maybe to ensure you are both completely satisfied and to resolve such an unfortunate disagreement, you could perhaps try a different manoeuvre and bring in a new frame all together, you could then have 10 of each with no compromise required which should ensure happy smiles when you insert your new pictures in the back!!

Answer 3

Couples often argue over simple things,what you need to address here is the real issue and underlying cause.I have living with my partner for 9 year now and we have two children..it is easy to argue over silly things..comunication is the key here.
With the photo and what we do is cut photo,s of the year and put them in one big picture so you have a wiew of what you have both being doing over the year..a collarge effect.

You have to learn and grow up a little AS far as a relationship is concerned..i am ever learing,you cannot say it,s this or nothing,,this sounds quite "churlish"..because life is not like this..like i said "communication".

So here sit down with your girlfriens and apologise..make two cups of co-co and look aty all your photo,s on the table..music on and get making that year picture..and have fun.


be the first to apologise..janine.

Answer 4

I can't imagine why you would think that this would be enough of a problem that you would have to write for an answer. Get another frame that is the same size and style. And quit having childish arguments. They are more destructive than you think.

Answer 5

Why not try oral?
You could choose some middle ground, maybe a set of 10 pictures depicting good practice in oral hygene?

Or how about discipline?
10 Pictures showing what happens to naughty boys or girls.

Answer 6

I agree with the othere here, your subject line is a real eye catcher...as for the "problem", buy another picture frame and display both your guys pictures

Answer 7

No don't think you are being unreasonable, your girlfriend sounds like a big pain in the ***. Maybe you might want to evaluate your relationship with her.....it's only going to get worse down the line if she won't learn to compromise with you.

Answer 8

i thing photo's of your girlfriend being done by missionarys in africa sounds nice.
perhaps a snap of her holding a dog, whilst being done by an african missionary,
or being done missionary, by a dog, holding an african?
The possibilities are endless....youve got ten slots to fill....unlike her.....

Answer 9

Beautifully done. You are the master. Maybe she's uncomfortable with doggies

Answer 10

Buy another one then you can both have a frame each - problem solved

Answer 11

What about some nice p u s s y pics as a compromise????