am in this long distance relation with this one kid for a year nowbut am the one that left due to problems i love him and he says he does 2 but at the same time he lies to me and hide thingz from me he's mom don't like me cuz she says am dominican when am really not my family is but am american lol he' puerto rican he's says when he 18 he'll come for me but that in 8 months plus hes not startin doin nothing wat should i do really
2007-01-01 06:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by bellaca mala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LDRs, IMO, are rubbish. Well, it depends how far and the situation though.
You're in deep trouble my dear. Move on, date people, go out with friends, anything just to preoccupy your mind. The less you think about him, the less you'll feel for him.
2007-01-01 07:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From past experiences, if he's hiding things from you, why should you trust anything he says? I was in a long distance relationship for 3 and a half years when I was in high school. There were a lot of tears and long phone conversations, but he never lied to me or cheated on me. We did break up after high school, but we grew apart. Maybe you should try to find a guy who's closer and whose family likes you. Take it from me, a relationship where the parent/parents don't like you is hard enough, but long distance relationships almost never work.
2007-01-01 06:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a long distance relationship with my husband and haven't seen him for nearly 8 mos. We have a very, very strong bond!!! Don't listen to anyone else out there, it depends on the couple's hearts for eachother. It can work, but why would you want to be in a long distance relationship at the age of 18? I believe you're depriving yourself of any potential healthy relationships where you could have so much fun spending quality time with the person.
Good luck and peace!
2007-01-01 06:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww well, some long distance relationships work...my bf lives in England and im here in the US...but ur guy seems like the lazy kind of guy...in a long distance relationship, both sides must put the effort. Ur bf seems to be going nowhere. This kind of long distance doesnt really work. im sorry.
it's best you move on and find someone closer. good luck :)
2007-01-01 06:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my goodness, im in a long distance realsionship too so i know how you feel.
i think that if u love him, AND trust him, you should stick with it and see wat happens when u are together in pesron when he is 18. things may not work out but if u have been in this for a while i think that u will be pretty strong when ur 18 and itll all be good.
but if he lies to you...thats not good. you need to talk to him about that.
and the thing with his mom, whatever, shes not in the realsionship..its you and him, thats it.
2007-01-01 06:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by omgew. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If It's A "long distance relationship" and hes already lying you can bet he will lie when he tells you he loves and that he will always be true to you. it will never work.... He has probably been cheating already.
2007-01-01 06:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by † Dark Prince † 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes lieing to you then he might be lieing to you about coming you could always come up with questions to find out if he is lieing or not you just have to ask the right ones personaly i hate long distance relationships cause i have to hold my girlfriend idk im a cuddling person i just like to be around that person why would i go out with someone anymore if i dont get to see them or kiss them or even hug them its not the same to me well there my opinion hoped i helped you out
2007-01-01 06:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by mrk198995 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships rarely work. None of mine did. Period.
2007-01-01 06:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Coalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is long distance love, he's probably with another girl.Guys come up with these things because they want to breakup with you but they don't want to break your heart. I hope this helped!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-01 06:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by SamLove717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip kid
2007-01-01 06:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋