I am not too sure about where I fall, reading books has led me to believe that I am average, but in the grand scheme of things does it matter?
2007-01-01 06:27:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For years I went back and forth on that one. I use to say, yes it does matter because of all the things I read in books. I feel like when you give yourself to someone without getting to know them, then you both leave yourselves open for judgment. If you take that time to get to know who your partner before becoming intimate then you leave yourselves open to a whole different world of exploring each other and knowing what either wants without saying a word. When you hold out there is chemistry that comes out of the wood work. When you have strong chemistry together it is hard to have bad sex. Size to an extent does matter but it is not everything. I have had someone who was big and really sucked and I have had someone who was average and was awesome. Don't let your insecurities keep you from enjoying yourself and don't be ashamed of what you got. It could be worse! You could of hooked up with Lorraine Bobbitt!
2007-01-01 06:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Fuel632 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has her own preference. What one woman will think is average, another will find too big and painful. I have a friend who cannot stand a long skinny pole, she'll take a short fat one over that any day.
In the grand scheme, it matters but it's not that big of a deal provided you know what to do with the rest of the equipment you were born with. If you can't get her to singing your praises with just your hands, won't matter if you are packin a .45 Magnum or a .22 short. :D
2007-01-01 14:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with guys on both ends of the spectrum, and anywhere in between. It's all good. It's not the size of the wand but the magic in it. I've had much better lovers who were "average" size. Guys with big ones tend to think that's all they need, and they don't bother with things like romance, foreplay, kissing technique, etc.
2007-01-01 14:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Torchbug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the average height of the US male is 5' 9" today.
2007-01-01 14:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been with a few gf in my life, and they all say size matters, prefering 9 inches.
all of them said that less than 6 was bad.
the only ones that say size dont matter are with needle *****.
2007-01-01 17:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Average or larger for me. (From 6 1/2 inches upwards)
2007-01-01 17:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it matters, buy a pair of shoes four size's to small.
If size doesn't matter go buy a pair of toddler underwear
2007-01-01 14:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by brackattack_81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-01 14:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to use it well...then, unless you fall to the upper or lower extreme, you'll be fine.
2007-01-01 14:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does. people tend to favor the skinny rather then the fat...
i do hope you are talking about weight.
happy new year :)
2007-01-01 14:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋