before I dump her. I don't wanna hear any bullshit about letting it be. I took good care of this woman and she decided to piss on me. I know for sure she did and I want to do something to make it hurt. Any Ideas?
2007-01-01 06:15:26 · 24 answers · asked by jared d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Revenge? By using this word you make clear that you never really loved her ! ! !
2007-01-01 06:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by corleone 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge is to GET RID OF HER! Cheaters should NEVER be forgiven because if they are, they will cheat again and again and again and again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheaters rate right DOWN there with child molesters, serial killers, etc. People cheat ON PURPOSE, so they have a serious mental defect and forgiveness can't even put a dent in their LITTLE brains! The ONE THING cheaters fear most is not getting caught, but NOT GETTING AWAY WITH IT! Dump her! The better she's treated, the more she'll cheat. She has a wandering eye and she has a wandering heart. Tell her to WANDER OUT OF YOUR LIFE, find someone better, most women are.
2007-01-01 06:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel3791 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first, how bad was she cheating?
1= not that bad
2= sorta badish but bad
3=BAAAADDD
4=HORRID Whore!HO
1=kissed other
2= made out
3= went to 2nd base
4= she fuked him up like a woman stuffing a turkey on thanksgiving
this is for 2 or higher = OK. first, you hook up with another girl. kiss her and make out and all, and maybe go all the way. then walk around and make sure one of your bad girlfriend`s friends see you. then, when she gets mad, if she cares, have a big BIG embarrassing arguement (embarassing for her) and yell real loud about how she cheated on you and make sure there are a lot of guys around so they will never date her. then, whenever she is around, go with your new girlfriend and makeout some more and say how much you like your new girlfriend and all that.
but do all that discreetly except for the arguement part.
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-01 06:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
in history one of the meanest things you can do is play it cool and go after a friend or family member and let her catch you in the act. but the right thing to do is just to leave her period. that will hurt her more than anything, then ignore her as well and find you someone else. if you were doing all these good things for her then when you leave that will be hurt enough, trust me
2007-01-01 06:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
revenge isn't the best way to resolve the conflict. You should confront her and if you are up to it, maybe try and recover the relationship. If that's not what you want get on with your life and find someone else who makes you happy.
2007-01-01 06:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is for kids. If you have actual proof. Tell her you know and break it off. Be a big boy about it. Once a cheater always a cheater. You deserve someone better.
2007-01-01 06:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just leave her, dude. That'll hurt enough. Trust me, the revenge isn't all you think it will be. If you allow that to be your focus, then you will be miserable for a long time. Chances are, it won't hurt her as badly as you want it to and you'll just get even more angry.
Just leave!
2007-01-01 06:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by AK 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Man..I was in your shoes...the thing that will get her the most, is if you dissapear,no calls,nothing..make her think..make her think real hard...then after a few weeks let her in that you know she cheated..make her feel bad for what she did! Her karma will come back on her!
2007-01-01 06:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tom H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hate and hurting other people will only make yourself get sick. I know it hurts when you get **** on, but you need to be strong, tell her to hit the road, unless you really love her and she really loves you. In that case, my therapist says you can work through it together and she must stay true to you and you to her. If anyone cheats, they run too big of risk to get a disease and you both could die.
2007-01-01 06:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Diabla's daughter 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The total cut off is the easiest and one of the best ways. No phone calls, no chats, no IM's nothing. If she has stuff at your place just box it up and drop it off at her front door.
2007-01-01 06:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Seriously, just let her do whatever she wants to do. Don't wait to get revenge on her b4 dumping her, that's silly, she'll only think of you as a sorry kid who needs to go to low levels like that to get back at her. just dump her and totally cut her off, you want to make sure that she knows that you werent the center of your world (or just make it look like it). im a girl but i think that she deserves it. dont immediately date other ppl after her, b/c thatll look just as bad. just move on and make it look like letting her go was like taking a massive weight off your shoulders.
2007-01-01 06:18:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋