I like this guy who I think is majorly hot & he was the one to make the first move with me & was always saying that I'm beautiful blah blah. (He messaged me online)
We arranged a date & everything but he had to cancel it because of understandable reasons & then he said that he wanted to meet me the weekend before he went on holiday, he said he'd let me know but never did so that didn't work out either. He was in touch while on holiday & now he's back but it's not like before. I keep gettin told that he obviously does like me cos he texts me & stuff but I'm not too sure now, even though nothing has changed :s I don't know why he's stopped flirting with me :s We still text lots.
How do I get him back to the way he was before, flirting with me, actually ring me once in a while & ask me out on a date...I don't want to say anything too obvious cos he'll think I'm pushy and too into him :S
2007-01-01 06:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls spend way to much time thinking about this question. It's easy and only one true way to do it. "TELL HIM"
There is nothing wrong with that. Trust me as a man who talks to Woman all the time it would be nice to get feed back every now and then.
Think about one or two things will happen nothing at all or the next level in frendship.
2007-01-01 06:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by hdchackz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really like this guy then no way are you being pushy by just questioning him if he likes you or not. if he's always flirting with you and texting you lots then either he's giving you hints or just wants a friendship. either way you should just take the risk and ask him. if you just sit and wait then he'll think your not interested.
2007-01-01 14:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out yourself. Maybe he's not sure if he wants a relationship with you, but going out on a date could change his mind. you just have to be confident and make the first move, and you usually end up getting what you want =] good luck!
2007-01-01 14:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the girl at the top of the list take a step back but dont make it look like ur not interested at all cause then he will think that ur not interested and will give up so still flirt a little
2007-01-01 14:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by whitewarrior72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he is not 100% sure to go through with the date because he may think it will lead to a relationship..maybe he's insecure or is afraid of commitment... i say step back a bit, and pretend like you don't care...and maybe he'll come back slowly:P
2007-01-01 14:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by luvluv_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him ,it sounds like he's keeping you on the sidelines just in case his other plans don't workout .
If your a smart lady you will find a man that is totally there for you in person ,,not texting you when its convent.
2007-01-01 14:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by david y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if you have to worry about being to pushy, and walk on eggshells all the time around him, just to keep him, then its not working, be like me, they like me how i am or they dont.
2007-01-01 14:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe one of your friends (specifically a girl) told him creepy stuff about you so he'd like her.
2007-01-01 14:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by finitecesar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well before me and my boyfriend were goin out we new we liked eachother....we never had the guts to tell eachother how we felt...so lol i told my friend to tell him i liked him.......does this kinda give you an idea???
2007-01-01 14:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Paigibee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on more dates
2007-01-01 14:10:34 · answer #10 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋