There is this boy that keeps on asking me out what do I do help here???
2007-01-01 06:03:57 · 19 answers · asked by Emilee G. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel if a man keeps asking you out and you're constantly turning him down, shows he's presistent & interested in u, but if you're not interested in him u need to tell him you're not, but try to be nice about it.. but i think u should give it a try, cause he keeps on asking you and he might be a breath of fresh air for u.. something different means learning new things.
2007-01-01 06:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mrz`J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you DON'T want to go out with him?
The next time he asks you just say, "Hi (insert name here) could we talk for a second?". Then pull him aside and say, "look we've talked about this before and I though I told you no already. Now stop being so pathetic, take no for an answer and leave me alone".
I didn't say it was a nice thing to say someone but when somebody is pushing you, you've got to shove back! If he keeps doing it say "stop being so pathetic" to him in front of all of his friends and tell him to, "grow up".
2007-01-01 14:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him go out with him. If not then tell him one of three things. Either tell him that you just don't like him in that way and that you would prefer that ya'll just be friends. Or you can tell him that you are not interested in dating anyone right now, you are too focused on school/work to date right now. Or you can just tell him that you kinda like someone else right now, and you want to see where that goes. He'll get the point...lol. Either way, I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-01 14:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to go out with him say so..and if he keeps bothering you tell him that, the more he asks you the more you hate him.....anyway, it sounds like he just wants one thing or he could have a bet with someone else, and if he gets a date with you he wins the bet....either way...not a good thing
2007-01-01 14:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you like him or not.
If you don't like him at all, just simply say "thanks for asking me, but I would like to stay single," or something nice like that.
Try not to be rude or mean. Some guys take rejection badly.
But, if you do like him, tell him how you feel.
If you are old enough and really want to go out with him, just go out with him.
2007-01-01 14:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by AEhottiex3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't taking the answer NO then your going to have to tell him straight out your not interested in him in that way. Nip it in the bud cause it might get worse.
2007-01-01 14:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur intersted with the guy then go for it, but if ur not why would u accept the invitation ryt?? hw old are u anyway?? hehe.. its seems ur stil young to have a hard tym deciding about the situation.. peace out!!
2007-01-01 14:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by katrina r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if you like him then just say yes and if you don't just tell him to leave you alone. if you continually tell him no in the nicest way then he'll never take the hint. sometimes you have to be mean in order to be left alone.
2007-01-01 14:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him go for it but if you odn't then let him down gently, something like, I like you but just as a friend. Hope this helps!
2007-01-01 14:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you if you don't want to then tell him get out my face or something but if you do then say yeah.
2007-01-01 14:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋