I try to tell someone I really like them,but everytime I try,I can't say anything!!!my words abandon me then I just stand there goggling at him.HELP
2007-01-01 05:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by Holly H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't have to try so hard.if you love someone,show it,you don't need to tell him.same way if you don't love someone,don't show him,just tell him.i am sure he will hint it,and eventually realize it.if you straight away tell him,he might get off handed and you will scare him away,then there goes your great chance of having a relationship with this guy.just relax and keep it cool,let things come,flow naturally.love will come in its own time.
2007-01-01 05:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by dra shelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, putting yourself out there. Have you dated the guy in question? Try just being his friend first. Learn how to be more comfortable in his presence before you drop the "love bomb" on him. Ask him out for coffee or for lunch. Then maybe out to dinner or a movie...if it works you'll find the words and the way to make it work. Good luck...
2007-01-01 13:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do I tell a guy I love him without making a fool of myself?
Unless he says he likes you too it's impossible. But it's a risk you have to take if you want him badly enough.
Clear your head, take a deep breath, count to three and say it. Once you take a deep breath and count to three there's no turning back.
Good luck.
2007-01-01 13:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone!!! I have always had my friends ask these random guys I didnt even know just cuz I thought they were cute... but I know now that that's not a good thing to do. You need to show this guy you have the guts, self-esteem, and confidence. Guys LOVE girls who show these three things. So, if you ask him out yourself without sounding nervous, he'll apreciate it. And I think its not that your nervous, you may just be excited. Good luck!
2007-01-01 13:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never be ashamed, or feel embarrassed about telling someone you love them. Love is the greatest thing anyone has to offer , or share with another person.
2007-01-01 13:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem but I just walk up to him and look him in the eyes and said I love you...and then I ran. Do the same thing but don't run.
2007-01-01 14:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going on a date.. there's nothing worse than having big feelings for someone that turns out to be just a loser and nothing special.
watch the movie 10
2007-01-01 13:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, if you can't say it, you don't love him. When the right guy and the right moment arrives, the words will come. Good luck.
2007-01-01 13:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by KZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No good answer for this one because you always run the risk of making a fool of yourself when dealing with love. You just have to step out and risk it all!!! Welcome to the human race.
2007-01-01 13:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by BECB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brave. Be careful how you word it. "I really care about you" is easier to recover from than "I love you." Because if you don't get that "I love you" return, that's a big whopper hanging out there. (from Seinfeld).
2007-01-01 13:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋