The most agressive guys are typically looking for one thing, so if a girl doesnt ask out a good guy is she bound to end up with a player "user"?
2007-01-01 05:38:19 · 16 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mommy drea: sorry, thats' how guys feel. its tough isnt it.
2007-01-01 05:42:05 · update #1
cajun : a truly good guy cant be turned into a jerk, he has a solid upbringing.
2007-01-01 05:43:26 · update #2
Jennifer M: the whole point of this is that it is not about making yourself approachable, but making yourself approach.
2007-01-01 05:48:27 · update #3
im a good guy. they the nice girls never come up to me.
2007-01-01 05:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by k9k8k7k6k5k4 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good guys aren't all shy and reserved, but the more outgoing/aggressive types are the ones that tend to get anyone's attention first. Experienced women can spot the players and ones out for primarily sex and know to avoid those if they aren't up for some casual fun.
However no, a woman doesn't need to ask out a "good guy" to ensure she ends up with one...while it's perfectly alright for a woman to approach and ask out a guy, there are plenty of worthwhile guys out there that are aggressive enough to ask women out and make wonderful partners...
The stereotyping doesn't work well because there are often, such as in this case, too many exceptions to make it accurate with high frequency...
While many women will experience a player/user...so will many guys (chicks behave that way too unfortunately)...we "end up" with what we accept...just because we may have experience with those kinds of people, even more than once, doesn't mean we'll 'end up' with them...we learn the lesson and move on (hopefully) to something better and/or someone more suitable...
2007-01-01 05:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are correct in a way. Good guys are reserved at first, but u dont have to neccessarily have to ask them out, but u practically have to hit them over the head with a hammer to show them that u like them. I know cause im very reserved myself with women.
Just give them the right signals, when u talk to them tell them
how its so hard to find good guys these days. This will signal to them that u are actually looking for a good guy and not for some short term relationship or for money , or to party like most women are these days.
good luck:)
2007-01-01 05:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will only end up with what you allow to come into your life. You don't have to settle for anything or anyone. Only allow your life to be open for 'good guys' and don't let the others occupy your time. Also, try hanging out with 'good guys' and make yourself more approachable, they tend to be a little more shy and reserved. Just a thought. Good luck!
2007-01-01 05:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aggressive doesn't always mean looking for one thing. Some people are better at initiating conversations/relationships than others. Opposites attract. Some girls who do ask out guys end up living in a trailer park with three kids and getting beat other other day of the week. Others are happy. I think its WHO you ask out that matters, and paying mind to who asks YOU out. Heh.
2007-01-01 05:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a girl cant find it possible to approach a "Good Guy" then she has issues. She likes the drama that comes from relationships. You are either a good judge of character or you are not, it's that simple.
2007-01-01 05:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by katienebraska 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 07:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly not used to be in that concern ... I certainly not discovered the lady that i maintain now ... But i might say that in the event that they began to see the women character(s) then they extra then seemingly would have felt dangerous ... But when they'd no intrest in the first place except intercourse ... Then i might say that their hormones was in whole manipulate.
2016-08-10 06:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by bungay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought about it that way. The one time I asked a guy that I knew liked me, he ended up not even being that interested once i initiated it.
2007-01-01 05:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, her chances of winding up with a jerk are higher if she
does not approach good guys...
2007-01-01 05:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it might take longer though to get a good guy. Most good guys are boring though, that's why girls end up with jerks.
2007-01-01 05:39:42 · answer #11 · answered by Interested 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋