she goes out with her college freinds. to bars, or dancing. aboutonce a month. girl night out crap. . . . except i discovered that she puts a condom in her purse. reason: its just a rule her and her friends have. why? "just in case". in case of what?
2007-01-01 05:30:05 · 20 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
**** happens, esspecially when you're drinking. Just be glad if she were to **** up and not tell you, you wouldn't have to worry about herpes or hiv. I would only be concerned if the condoms started getting "lost". If you were married and she went out and took condoms, I'd be a little more concerned. She is in college, and all her other friends do it. You have to have trust, or you have nothing. If she isn't trustworthy, find someone who is. Don't be overly trusting. I know it sounds crazy and immature but have you ever thought of having a friend she hasn't ever met go to the same club as her and keep an eye on what she is doing. Or, you could call cheaters the tv show. That is kind of immature, and I can't even believe I said it, but honestly it's what I'd do.
2007-01-01 05:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very legit-Any girl in any relationship other than a monogamous marriage should carry and use a condom. It's not all about birth control. A bigger concern is STDs. While I understand it's tough to think that the one we care about might have sex with someone other than us, count your blessings she's at least minimizing the risk of infecting you with something. She may break your heart, but there's a cure for that. I think when you add together a girl who still needs to go out dancing and to bars with the girls (what's wrong with dinner and a movie) and feels there might be a "just in case" opportunity, you should be looking for someone else. Next weekend, make a point of letting her know you need to stop off at store to buy some condoms before you go out with the guys--I'd be curious to see how she responds.
2007-01-01 05:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy25 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, just giving her the benefit of the doubt ---
Maybe it's a RULE they all follow, no exceptions, even if one of them has a boyfriend. Then she's just being supportive of her friends, and honoring the RULE.
OR maybe she keeps it to give it to a friend if they need it.
Those are the only 2 legit reasons I can think of.
This definitely calls for further discussion, and if you are in a relationship she owes you the truth.
Ask her how SHE would like it if you brought a condom along when you go out with the guys 'just in case'????? If you have decided to be exclusive to each other, there should be no 'just in case.'
Sherry
2007-01-01 05:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by who me? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never know whats going to happen after a full night of drinking. Its the most responsible thing for her to do to carry a condom. Becuz if she does cheat on you atleast she won't get pregnant or an STD. Also what if her friend needs a second one? You never know when you miht need a condom its best to always have one handy. I'm 33 weeks pregnant and I don't have sex but I always carry a condom cuzI never know wen a friend might need it or just some random person.
2007-01-01 05:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 07:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think lots of guys have a condom in their wallet right now and some of you are in a relationship too. Some things become habit and taking a condom with you when you go "out" is a good one to have. Even if you dont need one a friend might.
2007-01-01 05:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just in case:
Just in case her friend needs one. Just in case anyone needs one. Just in case she needs one. At least if she cheats on you she isn't going to bring home AIDS too.
Women and men should absolutely carry a condom around with them if they are going to hang out on the party scene. Never know when someone may need it. (And I'm not slagging the party scene, I just don't think anyone on the Subway or at the grocery store is going to ask me for a condom)
2007-01-01 05:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the legit reason. She is looking for some strange. You should go do the same unless you are married there is nothing stopping you. Have fun while you are young and able.
2007-01-01 05:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In case of sex, for a condom serves no other purpose
2007-01-01 05:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this so called girlfriend is really serious about your relation ship with you then there is no reason for her to carry a condom.Words of advice dump her.
2007-01-01 05:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by hover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋