Tell her to ask him out. It's the only way to find out what happens. Otherwise, she might regret later for never asking him out.
2007-01-01 05:31:09
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answered by umnichka7 2
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You think an 8th grade boy is the answer to make her happy after death and diabetes? Wow to be young again. You said you have the same problem so is there really a friend, have you both been diagnosed with diabetes and both faced family death? Or are you the friend. The boy isnt the answer to her happiness she will have to find that within if she is using a boy, girl etc for that it wont work. To answer the question though taking everything out of the equation sounds like she has to many "what if's leading me to believe she's to young and immature to handle the ups and downs of a relationship".
2007-01-01 05:37:17
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answered by troys_wifey2003 3
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Relationships are about learning to get along with each other. She should ask him out if she really wants to because otherwise she will regret not doing it. If he says no then at least she knows for sure instead of just wondering. If they do get together and they break up later, she still learned from the relationship. If she doesn't take a few small risks then she might know what good things life might have in store for her. I hope this helps!
2007-01-01 05:36:56
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answered by GDeLuna 1
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Sorry, the Mom in me just can't be silenced. You are in 7th grade and don't need to worry about being anything more with a boy than good friends. Don't worry about "taking things to the next level" and being boyfriend-girlfriend. At your age it is a great way to loose a good friend. Wait til you get up to the High School to worry about boys...your time will come and you will be ready for these issues...and so will he. Your friend needs to worry about her illness, her grades and her family...not the added pressure of a boy! Diabetes is a very serious illness that needs alot of attention, especially since she is so young. Hopefully she is not on insulin and her condition can be reversed. If you truly care about her help her get healthy! Good luck.
2007-01-01 05:37:26
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answered by Barbiq 6
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If she is in the 7th grade my advice to her is something she might not want to hear. She needs to change her focus and forget about a guy (she's still a baby for crying out loud). Her focus should be her schoolwork, obeying her parents, and getting to know God, everything else is of no importance. Guys at that age or any age will do nothing but hurt her. They will use her for what they want and then will go and get another and repeat the process. She needs to consider staying pure and clean. Leave those guys alone, going out is the first step to a broken heart. Tell her to go out with the family and friends and just be happy with that for now. God will bless her soon enough if she is honest with her own self. Tell her to seek God for her problems; not a woman, not a man, not drugs, or alcohol. God will take care of her!
2007-01-01 05:53:21
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answered by Denise W 2
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if you don't take risks in this life you can't expect to get what you want. If he says no, then at least she's tried and they can still remain friends. If they break up, as most relationships do eventually, then at least her first dating experience will have been with a good friend who she trusts, and she will learn valuable lessons from her mistakes.
Being dumped or turned down is not fun but people get over it and come out stronger. So I would advise her to go for it.
And I'm sorry for all her troubles, she is lucky to have a good friend in you that cares about her. Good luck to you both
2007-01-01 05:32:56
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answered by monkeynuts 5
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I'm sorry for your friend and give her my good wishes, but if she really likes him, then she should ask him if he feels the same. And even if he doesn't it's not going to be that awkward. I bet that because of the age diff. the two might not even see eachother that much so its not that big of a deal. You will have plenty of time drooling over in high school b/c personally, I think youu guys are too young for having bf/gf but its
2007-01-01 05:39:29
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answered by anonymous 1
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I'll be serious in answering this for you. I know that being a mature acting person is important to you and your friend, I am also sorry to hear of her illness, but please before you guys get concerned about boy friends/love life's, enjoy your childhood and leave the smoochy stuff for later in your life's. Build a friendship between the two of you that will last a lifetime, because that's what is more important at your time of life.
2007-01-01 05:38:34
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answered by ncisle 2
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Instead of just having her ask him out on a date by herself why dont you both come up to him and ask if he would like to go out to the movies with both of y'all and more than likely he will say yes because most men think 2 is better than 1. Then when you should up, have a date with you and turn it into a double date.
2007-01-01 05:38:09
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answered by Anonymous
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The best thing to do would be to stay friends because once this dating thing comes in between things are ruined. They should stay friends for now and after high school if they are still talking to each other then she should make a move. Chances are he will ask her out first.
2007-01-01 05:36:54
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answered by collegeray2006 1
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Well, I'm in the 7th grade as well and I wouldn't think of dating an older guy. Maybe help her find someone her age. But if she wants to go ahead and ask him out, then let her. Just let her know that she should probably find someone her age. Good luck!
Happy New Year!
~Rachey :)
2007-01-01 05:36:36
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answered by ? 2
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