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ok so my parents dont seem to trust me i mean they seem to like my Boyfriend but when i ask if we can do anything together they say no that we spend too much time together and stuff. They dont let me talk on the phone with him that much and i can go anywhere with him either. i dont see him mucha at school and over Breaks from school i get to see him maybe once... why dont they trust me or is it just the fact that i'm 14 and i have a steady boyfriend?

2007-01-01 05:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

5 answers

grow up first...

2007-01-01 05:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 1 0

Once again the Mother in me cannot be silent...At 14 years old you do not need a BOYFRIEND!! Why are you girls in such a hurry to grow up and get guys? Because then you have a tendency to get babies...NOT GOOD. You should thank your lucky stars that your parents are letting you HAVE a boyfriend. So you don't talk to him 24/7....or see him 24/7...be grateful for the time you do get. Frankly it is a lot more than you should have at your age. I don't think it has anything to do with weather or not your parents trust you...it is more likely the situation they do not trust and I don't blame them one bit! I have seen too many girls get into guys at your age and end up getting pregnant and left...and their parents have to pick up the pieces and end up raising not only their own family, but their grand kids as well. And then they get to watch their daughters either drop out of school and go on welfare or work themselves to death trying to support a child on their own. Neither situation is good and not what any parent wants for their children (boy or girl).
So, get over yourself and enjoy the freedom you already have!

2007-01-01 13:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0 0

They don't trust you because you are 14 and have a steady b/f..
That is a situation that frequently leads to sex...

2007-01-01 13:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

SAME SITUATION GIRL! ha i'm 14 and im in that. i think it's just bothering our parents that we're so young and dating. im sure they trust you, its him they dont trust. they just wont say it

2007-01-01 13:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by xk2lxsouthx 2 · 0 0

maybe they think you're growing up too fast and they still see you as their little girl.

2007-01-01 13:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by bre-bre double o seven 1 · 0 0

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