ok so all dis guys wanna f@$%$# me but wen i told dem im a virgin n dat im still keepin it dey dont believe me. well im tired of arguin wit dem dat i am so wat do i do n how do i convince dem i dont wanna do it now. cos i don want to be raped.
2007-01-01 05:10:49 · 31 answers · asked by 9jagurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Off the subject, you really should try to speak in proper English when asking questions to the general public. You are making a bad impression.
Which, in actuality, may be the root of your problem. You have to ask yourself, what type of signal or impression are you sending that convinces them that you are not a virgin? You may be doing something that encourages disrespectful advances towards you. Of course, this sort of male behavior is never excusable.
If you think you may be raped by a guy, stay very far away from them! Don't have anything to do with these guys. Watch your actions, watch how you dress, and don't talk dirty to them.
You have respect and integrity for yourself by not sleeping with everyone. Now just make sure you are presenting yourself with the same integrity.
2007-01-01 05:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying. Who cares if people don't want to believe you. It's none of their business to begin with. Being a virgin is something to be proud of and you don't need to prove it to anyone. Nobody believed me either, but I was. Now, you said something about "being raped". That leads me to believe that you might be messing around with these guys which would make them think that you are not a virgin (even tho you are). To me...if it talks like a duck, walks like a duck and looks like a duck.....GUESS WHAT? People are gonna assume it's a duck. Maybe you need to take a step back and look at why these guys are thinking this way and make a change in yourself and the way you act.
2007-01-01 05:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by It's Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them your a virgin, and you want to save it. And if guys dont believe you, then find some new people to hang with. And if your scared of getting raped, avoid them completely. But if you do get raped, call the authorities. You need to find a guy that respects you and is looking for a mate, not a play toy.
2007-01-01 05:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jose C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off please learn to speak and type english so we can understand you better (and you'll get further in life and school that way)
Next, don't associate with boys you blieve only want to be with you to have sex with you. There's not a real high risk of you becoming raped simply because you are a virgin, but there are boys who would go after the challenge of taking that from you and may try very hard to persuade you that they are worthy of being your first. Stand firm if that's what you desire to do.
2007-01-01 05:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell do youc are what they think? You are strong enough to remain a virgin for your values then your should value that the men who don't believe are not worth your time. Find one who does believe you and you might have a good friend.
2007-01-01 05:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why do u talk 2 people whu always want ur body
i think they r not gettin u in ur true stead
and hence u shud always talk 2 people whu understand u and with whum u dont haev 2 give an explanation
2007-01-01 05:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by dignityleo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. if you're not comfortable, don't do it. Forget what they say. It's your body, and if you're not comfortable, don't do it. It is a common fear among women of getting raped or getting hurt. If the guy is decent, he shouldn't force you. If he does, dump the guy. A decent guy will make you comfortable and respect you. Trust and comfort are very important.
2007-01-01 05:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
9jagurl, i already know is my sister, well i always tell you, u very gorgeous and you dont know you entice people. i know the main truth you have all those guys is because you are a very apealling person and you are nice. well you have always tell me how you want to save it for that special person, so little sister what you have to do is say no or come to my place and talk about it.
if they refuse just tell me and i will do something about it.
2007-01-01 05:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by tibit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, first off, try using proper grammar.
its difficult to understand the point you're trying to get across when half your words start with "D"
secondly, why do you care so much what they think?
so they think you're not a virgin. let them. they cant possibly know either way, and you cant force them to believe you.
2007-01-01 05:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by ohyes_itsbekah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stay away from them. spend your time with people who care about other things besides getting in your pants. soon enuf your actions will prove you're a virgin.
2007-01-01 05:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by schneb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋