i live in california and my dad lives in luisiana. me and my little bro and little sis go to visist him during christmas and the summer and wenever else we can. there is this girl i met and she is one of the prettiest girls ive ever seen. 5 days ago i told her that i liked her alot but when i asked if she had any feelings for me she said she didnt know. eventually i plan to move to luisiana for good. the other day i talked with one of her freinds who was informed on this whole situation. she went on a question rampage but i answered them. eventually all those questions came down to this "if i were to ask her out now and then go back to cali i would be faithful and wait till i see her again because shes worth it". so do i still like her and wait till i move down to luisiana or do i not even try and move on?
2007-01-01 05:09:27 · 13 answers · asked by cyberturtle88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't know whether or not she has feelings for you? Perhaps though it would be safe to assume that she "doesn't know" depending on your answer to this question proposed by her friend.
Are you satisfied to wait for her not knowing how she feels in return? My guess (and hope) is that you would have to know that she is doing the same. If you believe that you love her enough to wait for her and be faithful to her that is awesome, but in the process, love yourself as well.
By saying that I mean, go ahead, ask her out and you will only know that answer to that question by going out with her? How else would you know? But the answer would be yes you would if you found that she felt the same way. Wouldn't it?
And yes she would be worth it if its love.
2007-01-01 05:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were already together then the move may be okay. But since you are not really dating don't move to try and make the relationship happen. If you two are to be together in time you will. Love will bring you together at the right time and you will be in the right place. Work on this relationship from where you are and see what happens. Take baby steps. It sounds like you really care for her so care enough to build a close friendship at this time. Follow your heart only you know what' s best for you just really think it over. Good luck on what ever you decide to do. Love is something special take your time and it will grow.
2007-01-01 05:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats the way you feel and thats how she's acting theres a good chance thats whats she's doing. I'd say unless she starts giving some better answers dump her. if doesn't sound like you guys have the healthiest relationship anyway. And I think her best friend should back off. And she should tell him that. But you also have to understand that you can't expect this girl to drop all her friends that have been in her life forever for you either. Especially since you're not even sure you love her
2016-05-23 03:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...if you were going to move there anyway why not give it a shot? Unless you are the cheating kind...sounds like this one is a good one if her friend is so supportive of her and so willing to look out for her by grilling you. If you are only making your decision to move based on a possibility that is a bad idea. What happens if the relationship goes sour and now you have just moved for nothing. Was it really worth it?
2007-01-01 05:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is afraid of the distance you guys are from each other. resulting in placing a big stop sign on a relationship. my advice stay friends talk on phone like everyday make plans to move there as soon as you move start a relationship. www.myspace.com/jimmycody
2007-01-01 05:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by www.myspace.com/jimmycody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were sure that you were moving to Louisiana than go for but if your not than don't because you and her both will just get your hearts broke because long distance relationships never last!
2007-01-01 05:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by ~brunette♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
Lurn howe 2 spel!
2007-01-01 05:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont move on! if u like her that much then go for it. really
2007-01-01 05:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by 11.7.06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like her that much
then i think you should her out before you move
2007-01-01 05:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with her you seem to really like this girl
2007-01-01 05:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by MT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋