Is it unfaithful??

Question

Is it unfaithful to hit three bases with another girl, if you are in a relationship?? Should I tell my girl??

She doesn't know the other girl.

Should I ask her to forgive me or not even try and let her dump me??

Answer 1

Your girlfriend deserves to know. Tell her.

Answer 2

I am sooo way out of it...I don't even remember what the bases are!!! HAHAHHAHAHHAA!!!! But even still, yes. It's wrong. If you plan on staying with this girl, my advice would be to tell her and take your punishment now. To me, it's better to find out from the person you love then another. Sure, it may go bad at first and you may break up, but seriously, in the end and after she's cooled off and you've remained faithful even through the break-up, then she may want you back. You never know. But the BIG question here wasn't asked.....WHY DID YOU CHEAT? If you did it, then there must be a bigger reason and you need to figure that out first.

Answer 3

Its pretty bad to hit three bases with another girl while you are still in a relationship! Yes you should tell your girl. You have to work things out before she finds out on her own. Be honest with her and tell her how you feel. if she really loves you then she will understand.

Answer 4

yes that is being unfaithful to your girlfriend wiether she knows the other girl or not.... You need to be honest with your girlfriend and let her be the one who decides if she wants to stay with you,,,,, You owe her that respect....

There is better chance that she might if you are honest with her instead of her finding out by someone else..... If you wanted to mess around with this other girl then you should have told your girlfriend and told her you wanted to end the relationship........

There is never a way you can have your cake and eat it too.... Good Luck and I hope all works out the way you want it too....

Answer 5

1. Yes it's cheating, hitting any base outside of a relationship is.

2. Tell her if you feel guilty and ready for the consequences

Answer 6

yes it is. It is unfaithful to hit one base with another girl if you are in a relationship. Yes you should tell your girl she has a right to know.

Answer 7

I think it's wrong to do anything with another girl while you have a girlfriend. But I'm wondering, could you explain the "bases" to me? That's always been something I've never understood, I'm black, and we don't really do the "bases" thing.

Thanks

Answer 8

Yes it is unfaithful.
No, you shouldn't tell your girl. Do you want to die? Cause if you tell her she is going to kill you or dump you.

If you want to mess with other people than break up with your GF. It's not fair to mess around behind her back.


Rule of thumb: it's cheating (being unfaithful) if you can't tell your mate without them getting mad.

Answer 9

If you are involved with a person and either said or allowed them to believe the two of you were exclusive, then any intimate contact or intimate communication with another person is cheating.

To tell or not is up to you. If she had done it, would you want her to tell you?

Answer 10

honestly dont try. u will get your *** kicked. not kidding. when i did something like that i told my bf and he was mad but then got over it cause i only asked another kid out and then told him to forget everything without him answering. but i screwed my realtionship with the kid i was messing with cause he then hated me then my bf. so the best thing for u is to keep the secret from your gf or forget everything and findsomeone better

Answer 11

You are not married and if you are already messing around them move on what is the other girl going to think that does seem wrong.