Somethng happen to me, a while ago and I have turned into a nice girl, I use to be the bad girl. But, I take all this crap from all of my siblings, I usually take it, but I'm sick of doing what they say, I usually do it and smile. Thinking that what comes around, goes around you will get your day too. Whenever they don't want to do something they literaly make me and when I don't want to do something, I have no choice. When I stand up for myself, I feel bad and notminate myself too do it, but I don't want too. I'm sick of being the nice girl, I can feel the bad girl coming back!
2007-01-01 05:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm...now..can i relate to you...??? my sis is da eldest but then shes too busy wid college...my bro's younger n my mums got sooo much o work..i really wanna help, but im tired of helpin n doin it all da time..i feel pathetic tellln her dat its enough....now evryone no matter hu...jus callls my name...like im some cinderella..we jus gotta understand tht one day...it'll b ok...u'll b da one rockn...evry dog has its day buddy...so dun wry...n plus..as long as da wrk dsnt get in way of ur studies n all...jus bear wid it n if u cnt...jus tok to ur mum....she'd understand...n dun let da bad grl *** on...ud get a break....bein a bad grl...wud jus turn ur whole family against u...n then wud follow a series of bad dayz...4get it grll...nt reallly worth it...n hey...dun forget...in da end its cinderella who gets da hott prince n da palace....chillaxx
2007-01-01 05:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by princessMD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should never fall into peer-pressure, because once you do, they will think that they can keep coming back and making you do things that you don't want to, only because they were able to make you do it before. You are in the right for standing up for your self, Because if you don't stand up for your self they are going to keep doing it, and each time the deed they ask you to do, will soon get worse and worse. And tell your sibling the Slaves were freed Early 1900's. and to lay the hell off, and if they want it done so bad to do it their selves
Good Luck
2007-01-01 05:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Allowing yourself to be used isn't being a "good girl" it's being a fool. One can be a good person and still stand up for themselves...although what your topic has to do with Singles & Dating, I do not know.
Treat others as you want to be treated...but have a spine and say "no" when it's appropriate. There's nothing bad about not allowing others to take advantage of you.
2007-01-01 05:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
being the nice girl does not always mean you are the push over.
what you have been doing is good and you should continue , but not to the point that you know full well that your brothers/sisters are taking undo advantage of you at least not letting this be the rule . be a good example show them what you think good is and think of good ways and words to tell them they have to do there choirs and so on.
keep up the good work. lay up your treasures in heaven
2007-01-01 05:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are a very unique person good or bad. I dont think anyone should take jubk off of anybody wether it familt or strangers. Stand up for your self always because you love you enough to not let anyone mistreat you or talk to you any kind of way. and besides it 2007 new year new problems. Be the person you have always been.
2007-01-01 05:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a negative thing to stand up for yourself. You're not a bad person, you may do bad things at times but remember, you're not a bad person.
2007-01-01 05:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tough being a girl period. I try always to be good, but I have my moments. When you get older and can take care of yourself outside of this house. You will be free. But, put up with it till you can take care of yourself good and proper.
2007-01-01 05:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't give in to temptation. The good girl will triumph in the end and you just have to wait a little while longer for them to get what they have coming. Don't give up yet!!
2007-01-01 05:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by sixcannonballs 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes being a bad girl aint' that bad! But know your limits!
2007-01-01 05:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by umnichka7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be a nice good girl without being a spineless wimp......definately stick up for yourself but always BE POLITE ABOUT IT
2007-01-01 05:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mari N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋