Should i tell to my co-worker that i am in love with her? She have a boyfriend but we flirt each other???
2007-01-01 04:17:51 · 14 answers · asked by withORwithoutyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
flirting = love ???
Maybe you're infatuated with her, but do your really know here well enough to be in love?
Do you like your job?
If you lost your job for sexual harrasment, would you care?
I think dating coworkers is a mistake. If you piss her off, she can tell your boss you'd been bothering her... whether it's true or not. You'll be the one in hot water.
2007-01-01 04:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by lots_of_laughs 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in dangerous waters. Sexual harassment comes to mind. She may be flirting because of the fact that she has a boyfriend, she can be free to be herself, not because she wants to initiate something with you. To talk to her at work about such things could be a bad situation. Ask her to some out of the office function, a drink, a meal...not on the work place and after hours. If she declines or brings her boyfriend, then she is telling you in so many words that she is in a committed relationship. IF she takes you up on your invitation you would still not have confirmation. see how things go and at some point tell her that you think that she is flirting with you. Even if you say so in a joking manner, she will either deny or confirm your suspicions. In this No means NO era, you may have to take her word. I would suggest not bringing up the L word for some time if ever. Until she tells you that she is leaving her boyfriend or would consider doing so for love, you would be best served by not bringing your feelings into play. Relationships at work are....can be a touchy issue.
2007-01-01 12:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really in love with her, or is it just an infatuation? Invite her out and talk with her. Become her friend and get to know her outside of the workplace. Treat her with respect and do nice things for her. You flirt with each other, but how far does the flirting go? Wait a while before you scare her off with the word "love". She may like you a lot, as well as not, but it's hard to know the true thoughts going on in her head. Do some research.
2007-01-01 13:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't tell her that. You may want to continue flirting and being really thoughtful toward her, but don't tell her your feelings until she breaks up with her boyfriend... then wait a little bit and ask her out for a casual thing.
You don't want to face the embarrassment and awkwardness of seeing her day after day after you confess your love and she says, "you are really nice but you know I have a boyfriend".
2007-01-01 12:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just hit on her and get it over with!
Seriously, though, no...don't tell her you love her. That might creep her out. Take her out to lunch and tell her how you feel about her, then see if you two hit it off. If so, maybe she'll dump her boyfriend for you!
Good luck!
2007-01-01 12:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Just because you flirt w/ each other doesn't mean she may have the same feelings you have. And you said it yourself she has a boyfriend. Step aside and just be friends.
2007-01-01 12:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by rexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE- VS- LUST ???? What is it???? LUST !!! You steeping over the boundaries if you know she has a boyfriend, right, so why go there, if all you want is in her pants and she flirting with you, well........
2007-01-01 12:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, Just start making small moves. ask her to come with you for a drink after work. Once you have sex with her, she's yours
2007-01-01 12:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by cjordan23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is having fun flirting leave it as that unless something happens
2007-01-01 12:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.
2007-01-01 12:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋