would you be jealous if your gf was still talking to his ex or even see her ex one or 2 times , especially if their breakup is kind of recent ..? let's say 1 month ..!!
2007-01-01 04:16:47 · 11 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am confused if she is talking to your ex or her ex. Your questions states both.
Her ex:yes
Your ex: no, but I would be nervous.
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2007-01-01 04:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not at all. But it depends one what kind of person your girlfriend is. If she is a very kind person that always wants to be friends with everyone including people that she's broken up with, then she probably just wants to stay friends with him. Now if what I described is not a lot like her, then maybe she's seeing him again and they're flirting and stuff. The best thing for you to do is trust her. Don't be jealous. Enjoy the time you spend with her. You could ask her for instance if she still has any feelings for her ex. Make sure you do it at a good time so she doesn't get mad. For now, don't be jealous.
2007-01-01 04:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on your security in the relationship. I didn't mind when my wife talked to her ex of 5 years while we were dating. I am confident in myself. Being able to trust her and her judgments allowed our relationship to grow. I think most woman like confidence over insecurity. If it doesn't work out for you and her because you let her talk to him, then it would not have worked when you forbade her to talk to him. Have some confidence and don't let jealousy cloud your judgment. Be cautious, both roads can break your relationship if not handled with care. Most of all COMMUNICATE with her and keep it of a calm nature.
2007-01-01 04:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by donniel608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends...when I left my ex and got with my now husband, I still talked to him because we had lived together for a long time and had a lot of things still going on with that, bills etc that we took care of. It has been almost two years now and I still talk to him occasionally, but I am madly in love with my husband and he knows it! You need to remember she broke up with him for a reason and if she still wanted to be there, she would. Don't show insecurity--it isn't attractive. Trust her!
2007-01-01 04:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by hdgrrl72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to be jealous, but yu should also realize that she just broke up with the guy, and probably still has feelings for him. She is still on the rebound, and you shouldnt be surprised if she breaks up with you to go back to him.
2007-01-01 04:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, I wouldn't be just jealous, I'd have dumped her already. It is possible to cheat without having sex. But sex will soon follow.
2007-01-01 04:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely, in fact I had to go through that and I made sure it was ended. My fiance seemed to think it was normal. I think he was being disrespectful to me.
2007-01-01 04:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Veridian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duhh, there's probably something a LITTLE extra going on in one of their minds.
2007-01-01 04:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very upset. Why is my gf a "his"? I'd probably dump her for that reason alone.
2007-01-01 04:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. a little because i know that he liked her and wanted to date her before and that there was another relationship
2007-01-01 04:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by christy lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋