My girlfriend who I loved very, very much passed away 5minths ago due to a car accident. I have a broken heart. But she had a sister very nice and very pretty we are very close she is with me almost every day. Last week she told me she is in love with me and has been for over a year. She never said anything becaue of her sister. She said her sister knew this bit no one ever told me. Waht do I do now. I like her a lot but feel like it would be cheating. Waht do I do really.
2007-01-01 04:12:22 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep being friends and see where it leads. Give yourself time to heal though as well. So sorry for your loss!!!!!
2007-01-01 04:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time. Your girlfriend just passed away 5 months ago. I don't think you are emotionally ready to start another relationship right now and especially with her sister.
The grieving process is different for everyone but you definitely need more than 5 months to heal. Maybe after a year or two you'll be ready to love again. If so, if you want to pursue a relationship than you should.
If your girlfriend loved you as much as you say you loved her then what she would want for you more than anything is your happiness. If the source of that happiness is with her sister then she would be probably smile down on you both.
Take it slow and give it time. you'll find love again. Good luck to you
2007-01-01 12:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am so sorry to hear that your girlfriend died this past year.
I am not sure dating the girlfriend's sister is the right thing to do under any circumstances. The fact that she says she has been in love with you for over a year is also scary. Was she planning on stealing you away from her sister to begin with?
I'd give it a rest for a while, and date no one. You need additional time to heal.
2007-01-01 12:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, i'm editing my answer, cause i read (by mistake i guess), that the girl passed away 5 minutes ago... and now i re-read and read the other people answers, and it was 5 months ago..is that correct?.
Well, i give my respects for what happened to her "accidentaly".She found another home ok.
And the other thing is, honestly, to be a good girlfriend and wife, you better have to be a good daughter and a good sister. I mean, we don't choose who "to fall in love with", but ....i don't know, you were her sister's boyfriend. That is somenthing that deserve respect and consideration. I can bet, i will never "see" any of my sister's men.
Listen to your heart, with love. It will tell you what to do.
Good luck ok.
2007-01-01 12:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, it sounds a little dramatic. first, sorry that your girlfriend died. but if her sister is in love with you, just be friends at first. i know that you see there is something between you too. it isnt technically cheating, because your girlfriend knew about her sister and her crush on you. so, its cool. but give yourself time to grieve and heal over the fact about your girlfriend. try not to jump right into the relationship...take some time for yourself. do something with your guy friends, relax. dont try too hard to get back in a relationship. you need time to heal. hope that helps.... =]
also, tell her sis how you feel too, tell her honestly.
2007-01-01 12:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by roxygirl2828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a damn difficult situation........... waise ur gf has passed away ( im sorry)........ i know u loved her a lot.. but life cant stop.... u will need a partner in your life... if not now then later.... so y not now nd y not her. she loves u.... its really difficult 2 find a person who loves u.u are getting this chance for the second time.dnt loose her........
2007-01-01 12:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋