I still dont have the courage to tell her my feeling after loving her 4 almost 2 years, how 2 do this? she talks little to me, & always smiles, plz help specially girls but guys ok aswell. i want her & really suffering without her,,,,,,specially des dayz one of the reasons that i dont have the courage to go is that during this time (2 years) i have met her hundereds of times but didnt tell her about friendship
2007-01-01 04:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by Alexfergi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be her friend first.
then gradually, u noe more bout her, u will b able to judge more clearly wether ur love is really love or just a crush.
and during this tym,she'll get to noe u and if sheez not shy then she might make the first move or else u can tell her u wanna go to a movie or something.it will luk more casual and next tym, u can ask her on a saturday to make sure its a date and then u noe the rest!
good luck and a happy new year to all :D!!!
2007-01-01 04:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by sych♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah, 4 days and you're already saying the L word.. Each person is very different with their emotions, if you feel as if you're ready to move onto that level then you should go for it but remember not to be so hasty. There's no rush. If two people have a real connection then it will just happen. As they say the best things come to those who wait. Just enjoy being with someone and don't worry too much about the whole Love things just yet. It's early days, remember and you're only young once. Hope this helps. x
2016-05-23 03:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that you are really serious about this after a hidden love of 2 years. My advice is, you should talk to her. Tell her your feelings for her and what you have been thinkinf about for the past 2 years. Don't miss this chance. If you do, she could be in a relationship and is not even aware that there is a guy she sees but doesn't know that he loved her secretly for a very long time. There are many things that could happen if you don't make a move. Don't be shy and break out of your shell! You need to have the courage to ask her out!
2007-01-01 04:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by missdo01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you might be feeling..but you have to say it face to face, really, I dont see any other way, have the courage to face her and explain yourself..(invite her a cup of coffe and there tell her all your feelings). This is if you really are that desperate, now there could be other ways such as try to be more friends with her, talk more with her, listen to what she says, do simple nice stuff for her, for example find out whast she likes and surprise her.. WIN her heart.. ;)
and one day after all that contact just tell her, you can even write her a letter with all the things you love about her and all the things that makes you love her and why do you think that after all this time she is so special to you..
good luck, and let me tell you, no matter what happens, she is a very lucky girl ;)
2007-01-01 04:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by luisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so it sounds that you and her are both at the point of being friends. just become better friends, dont push her into anything she doesnt want. take your time, i know that you have been waiting for a long time, but give her time. just be friends and then you can ask her out. friendship is the best way to start out a relationship. then she will probably she you as the guy you are and fall in love with you. i wish you the best. =]
well, it sounds that she might like you, smiling and stuff. become better friends, then she were fate leads you.
2007-01-01 04:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by roxygirl2828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to b her best friend 1st,let her know more about u,bit dont take it 2 fast,cz it will make d girl afraid f u!take it slowly like asking her out or anything bt dont rush it.care more bou her.when ur bond bcome stronger,then tat d time u tell her how u feel bou her.
2007-01-01 04:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. So she might get shocked but once you get your feelings out in the open with her I bet you'll feel a lot better!!
2007-01-01 04:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by jenus w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are friends and have talked to each other and she knows you then just tell her personally. She will think you`ve got guts
2007-01-01 04:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. You said she's always smiling at you, well it may be BECAUSE of you. I say go for it and hope for the best.
2007-01-01 04:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell her how you feel!! That will creep her out and make her think you are a stalker. Just ask her out. Start there, not with your feelings.
2007-01-01 04:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋