i cudnt marry my galfrnd as she has given me time to convice my parents ( 2 months) i cudnt convince my parents in that stipulated time. as the result she married to another guy. after marriage she ignored me......recently she called me n said that shez having nice time with her husband........after hearing those words i hurted a lot......... every time i think of the romance between her n her husband. its really hurting mee plz help me with your comments.
2007-01-01 04:08:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry that you feel so heart broken, and i know it can be hard to forget about her. But think about her as a person. If she was TRUELY in love with you, she would have waited for you to marry her. It sounds like she just wanted someone to marry her quickly, and didn't care who it was. I don't know her reasoning, maybe so she could get out of whatever her situation was. I'm sorry that she left you so heartbroken, but try to move on. There are many more women out there, and I'm sure there is someone out there who is PERFECT for you, and who will love you no matter what, whether you are able to marry her Right Now or not. Start going out and meeting new people. Do things that you love to help you get your mind off of it. I love animals, and when i am feeling down i will find a way to be around animals, and that always keeps my mind off my problems. She really isn't the kind of girl you want to marry, i hope you are able to move on, and i hope you find the girl you deserve. Good Luck, feel better soon!
2007-01-01 04:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Stark 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that if she wasn't willing to wait it out and was in that much of a rush, it wasn't going to happen for you and if it did, would it have lasted? You can't put a time frame on things such as marriage. As for being hurt when you think of her...stop thinking about her. She's moved on and so should you. Why would she keep calling you if she was happy with someone she just married? Either she's playing with you or she's mean and wants to hurt you. C'mon, look at the situation...let go and find someone new. Jealousy stems from insecurity...once you can isolate your insecurity, you can deal with your jealousy. Let her go man, find someone better...she's out there waiting for you.
2007-01-01 12:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's so much screwed up here. First, if you need your parents' approval to get on with your personal, adult life, you need to grow some coconuts and grow up in general.
Second, WHY are you accepting calls from an impatient **** who couldn't wait a decent amount of time for you to resolve something in your life before hopping in bed with another man??
Third, can you spell 'obsessive compulsive disorder'?
Maybe you are into pain. So remove the middleman and just hit yourself on the thumb with a hammer, and you can forget all about your excuses to mope around.
Move out of your Momma's house and get a life.
2007-01-01 12:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's married. Put a period and move on. She told you she's having a nice time with her husband. Why she felt she had to call you and tell you she's enjoying her husband I don't get. That was down right mean. But the point is she's letting you know she's over you. You need to get over her and move on.
2007-01-01 12:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After reading your message I think it is for the better. You should not breed nor experience happiness until you return to school and learn how to spell.
If all else fails a bullet should solve your problem.
2007-01-01 12:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kilroy238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start telling yourself that she's not yours anymore. Look for another girlfriend. Get yourself busy so you wouldn't think about her anymore. When you get yourself busy, you will began to forget about her and good luck in finding yourself a new girlfriend and get married. Sorry but you should've had listened to her.
2007-01-02 18:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if shes going to be a jerk to you about all of that, then you probally dont want to marry her. And if shes calling you just to tell you shes having a nice time with her husband, shes probally just trying to make you jelous. It dosnt sound like she really loves her husband and shes acting really immature, but thats just my opinion.
~*~Linzi~*~
2007-01-01 12:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Linzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ravi, it's time to move on and try to ease your pain. Try dating a FEW women and see how you feel. Good luck
2007-01-01 12:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to control jealousy? Take a children's writing course. Not only will it teach you to write and spell, and to put coherent sentences together (something you desperately need to learn how to do), you'll also be able to write her a lovely poem ;)
2007-01-01 12:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude get over it move on move on stop thinking about her get another girlshow her that you dont care that she got married with another dude
2007-01-01 12:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋