My boyfriend is ignoring me, can you see why?. I'm really upset!!!!?

Question

I'm seeing someone (Long-distance) We're not really in a so called relationship because we hardly see each other, but I really really like him. I'm going to see him in 2 weeks for the weekend. I get the feeling that he doesn't care about me and maybe using me. I spoke to him xmas day and he told me he would call me in a couple days, didn't hear from him, so I could'nt help it but I called him, and he told me he was in copenhagen for the weekend and will call me when he gets home. I checked MSN messenger and saw him online, meaning he's home and he still hasn't called me. Somtimes I get the feeling he really likes me hence the fact that he told me he wanted us to have a baby?!!! and the conversations we have. But why does he do this?!!!! I've paid to go see him and when I get there, he'll give me the money back for definate, maybe I shouldn't go see him, but I need the money back. I'm confused, cuz I really like him!!

I've decided that if he calls me later to not answer, I know I shouldn't play games, but I hate him at the minute for what he's doing to me!. Why are men like this?!!

Answer 1

I think its early to get down to any conclusion.I suggest you to give him some more time to prove himself that he loves and cares about you.Dont call him or talk to him.You have played your role really well.Now all that you need to do is sit back and relax.I know its hard to resist calling him,but trust me,we need to make guys miss us.This mostly works.I am not telling you to play games but the fact is you need to be silent for a while.I know you are frustrated by his negligence.Its very natural.
Take a break and dont even attempt to communicate with him.Its his turn and let him call you.Even if he calls you,talk for few minutes and cut the phone.Guys are bored by women who are too predictable,easily accessible and are always available.You need to make him miss you and run after you.
But if he still neglects despite of all attempts you need to move on.I know you love him but you need to do yourself a favour by getting over him.You will save yourself a lot of grief by detaching yourself from the strings of a guy who doesnt care about you.You dont deserve this.
Anyways,Give him one last chance to prove his love.If he doesnt,he's not worth your time,energy and emotions.