yes. this is a difficult question again. there is this girl i know. we are always so positive to each other. i've noticed that when i pay her a compliment, she is uncomfortable with it. maybe she does like me. i there a set time, when women like to be romanced. why isn't she accepting my compliments, when she is positive on other aspects of the relationship. about a week ago, we kind of had a falling out. i have never, come to the point where i've nearly told a girl that i love. i was going to, but i snapped. as most people knoe, my close friend has recently died. i have explain this briefly to this girl. the college where she work's, was closed troughout christmas and they open again tomorrow. i think about this girl all the time. it annoys me, when she won't let me behave the way, i want to, that is romantically. should i just behave that way and not seek approval. i have had dreams about her, i like her company. i am pleased with the things she is doing. she makes me feel happy.
2007-01-01 03:46:21 · 7 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should just ask her out
2007-01-01 03:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu either have a monster crush, or you're a dangerously obsessive individual. I can't tell which over the internet. If it ever occurs to you to stab or otherwise hurt her, her family, or one of her friends (boy or girl), realize that's a bad decision.
Now you have two choices if you're normal: Be cool with it, just tell her you THINK you like her and were thinking that it might be okay to try to be more than friends, and were wondering what she would think about somethinig like that. Maybe going to a movie or something.
THEN do not get all over excited and flip out weird and scare her away, but keep acting like your just friends when you go out. Don't do some over dramatic garbage you saw on a movie. Proximity is the main factor in getting any girl to like any boy. If she already hangs out with you, you can get her to like you more just by going on non-pleutonic dates and acting the same. Don't try to be romantic until it's obviously time. ROmance is wonderful if the girl is into that and feels she's in a long term committed thing, or if she's head over heals or very interested; if those factors aren't present it's creapy and pathetic.
OR you can uy way too many flowers, act the fool, make some speach you've rehearsed, really make her feel embarrassed, and crashand burn so monumentally that your cheaks turn pink years after when you think of it even though you're a black man.
Just my 2 cents.
2007-01-01 11:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by jim w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you said here gave me the"creep"!
"it annoys me, when she won't let me behave the way, i want to, that is romantically. should i just behave that way and not seek approval. i have had dreams about her, i like her company. i am pleased with the things she is doing. she makes me feel happy."
What do you mean by not seeking approval? just do what you want to?
Besides you talk a lot about the way you feel; the way she makes YOU feel.
What about her? did you ask her how SHE felt?
Maybe you are in love, but from what you say, it doesn't sound like the feeling is mutual.
It's all well to know how you feel about someone, but before rushing into anything, you got to make sure the feeling is mutual, or where you stand.
You seem to be in lots of pain for someone who is supposed to be happy. She doesn't seem to make you happy.
Maybe you should consider moving on.
People do come to their senses when they are about to lose what they have and never paid attention to!
You do seem to be in love with her. I am not sure she is with you though.
Good luck.x
2007-01-01 12:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but I don't think you have a 'relationship' in the boyfriend /girlfriend way as I do not see any indication that you have dated at all. I'm not sure what the fact that her college was closed has to do with anything. If you have not been out together then just ask her. if she says no then accapt it. if she says yes then date a few times as it sounds to me that you are infatuated rather than in love.
2007-01-01 11:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can feel these emotions with close friends...maybe she's not ready to cross the boundary between friendship and intamacy. Sometimes good friends are best kept that way...you may lose a great relationship. Maybe your feelings for her are deeper. You can't let it annoy you...it could build up a resentment.
2007-01-01 11:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she feels the same
2007-01-01 11:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about a woman or Arsenal?
2007-01-01 11:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by kritical_187 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋