Ok. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 weeks now. this morning (at 12:00AM) we were discussing our resolutions for the year '07. all he said was "If i tell you my resolution, you'll think im perverted." but then he told me that his resolution was that we take our relationship to the next level. I have no idea what he means by that.. the furthest we've done is make out. whats the next level of our relationship? (or what does he think it is)
2007-01-01 03:45:04 · 21 answers · asked by ilovehim<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a stupid little girl who thinks after 3 weeks you have a relationship. It means he wants sex. You are his sex toy for 2007. Wheee.
2007-01-01 03:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants to have sex with you. 'Helluva New Year's resolution, though, if you ask me.
It's only been 3 weeks. You may want to take a step back towards friendship or break this on off completely. At any rate, I suggest you don't give in. As someone else already said, you'd be his "sex toy" for 2007.
2007-01-01 11:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he says "you'll think I'm perverted" he isn't talking about taking his love to the next level. He's talking second base baby...you know...some heavy petting. Next time you are making out, guide his hand to one of your breasts. That will let him know you are ready to go to the next level. He hasn't tried it because he is afraid of your possible reaction. He has already indicated he is ready, now it is your move.
2007-01-01 11:52:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely wants to have sex. I know that is not what you want to hear but it is the truth. Just remember there is nothing he can do to force you into that. That is what I think he is doing, unless he wants to marry you, but it seems a little to soon. I hope this helps. Good Luck!!
2007-01-01 11:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by need_to_know432 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you took it the wrong way. he probably realy likes you and all and he wants to make love to you. even tho it has been three weeks he would like to get to know you more and build up love between you two. and let me tell you that he is not perverted because he wants to make sure you are ready for it. thats how i know that he values you apreciates you, and respects what you think. thats the what he ment to say.
2007-01-01 11:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really, really REALLY do not mean 2 sound like a jerk when i say this, but sweetheart, if you need helping figuring out what "the next level" is, then you're certainly not ready 4it
2007-01-01 12:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Trinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sounds like he's in it for the sex. No one moves one level up that quick.
Just a warning; he's thinking with his dick rather than his heart.
2007-01-01 11:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's after some action. and after 3 weeks? it sounds like he's just messing around.
2007-01-01 12:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'hand stuff' PLEASE use your imagination with that one.
HOWEVER... NEVER EVER do anything you don't feel comfortable with no matter what he says. You also haven't been together that long, so make sure he wants you for being you, not just so that he can 'do' stuff with a female.
2007-01-01 11:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, read the first ppost. YOu may not want to do it.
Tell him that . He should ait. and if he is presuring you, dump him.
2007-01-01 11:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Screen Name 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋