I'm seeing someone (Long-distance) We're not really in a so called relationship because we hardly see each other, but I really really like him. I'm going to see him in 2 weeks for the weekend. I get the feeling that he doesn't care about me and maybe using me. I spoke to him xmas day and he told me he would call me in a couple days, didn't hear from him, so I could'nt help it but I called him, and he told me he was in copenhagen for the weekend and will call me when he gets home. I checked MSN messenger and saw him online, meaning he's home and he still hasn't called me. Somtimes I get the feeling he really likes me hence the fact that he told me he wanted us to have a baby?!!! and the conversations we have. But why does he do this?!!!! I've paid to go see him and when I get there, he'll give me the money back for definate, maybe I shouldn't go see him, but I need the money back. I'm confused, cuz I really like him!!
2007-01-01 03:42:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've decided that if he calls me later to not answer, I know I shouldn't play games, but I hate him at the minute for what he's doing to me!. Why are men like this?!!
2007-01-01 03:45:34 · update #1
You don't need this. Stay away from those who'd choose to harm your heart!
2007-01-01 03:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship are about give and take. If you think that you are putting a lot of effort into the relationship and he isn't adding to the relationship or is not appreciating your efforts then you need to talk to him about it. If he has good reasons for the way he is acting, things will probably be better for both of you. If he doesn't have a good answer for you, it might be time to put your efforts into a relationship where you feel that the other person is adding equal amounts of effort. I hope this helps!
2007-01-01 04:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by GDeLuna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes you just have to let a relationship run its own course. Like my mom always tell me, dont let a man bring you down because a man can pick up and leave whenever he wants and that just leaves you stressed. But i had the same problem. It was like one day he was all over me, and i really felt the love, but the next day he was very distant towards me. So i've come to learn that if he acts like he's not worried about me, i try not to worry about him even though its hard, and i want to pick up and call him every hour,but you'll soon start gettin over it.
2007-01-01 03:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that into you.
Sounds to me like the two of you are just sex buddies so that would mean you are using him as much as he is using you.
If you don't like that then quit seeing him and quit calling him. He will either decide that he misses the heck out of you, or just fade away.
Devote your time and energy to finding a real relationship.
Good luck
2007-01-01 03:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men or anyone else do that? Because we allow them to. Stop the pain; don't allow this guy or anyone else treat you with less respect than you beleive that you deserve. Period. That takes self respect. Find it now for an improved life. Good luck.
2007-01-01 06:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's "toying" with you, leading you on, stringing you along. i'm sorry, i know it hurts. that's why he ingores you and then says he wants a baby! he wants you to be there when it's good for him but when he wants to go to "copenhagen" instead of coming to see you, then you find out he was lying? you're just convenient for him and his treatment of you will only get worse, i promise. this new year's resolution should be to see how many new guys you can find to date! good luck and have fun!
2007-01-01 03:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by habs_freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not confused,you're stubborn.you already know this relationship is dead,it just hasn't been buried.Always listen to your inner voice and when it tells you to move ,do it.what's the use in allowing your self to be hurt and then crying later about how you knew some thing wasn't right.
2007-01-01 03:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wasting your time on this plick. Go find a man that will treat you the way you want to be treated. You're the only one that can change the way things are going.
2007-01-01 03:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships never work out. because there's ether the boy Friend has a nother peace of @ss or hes always busy. or he dosent like you any more
2007-01-01 03:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between man and women are:
Men like to have all the women that can satisfy their ONLY want and need.
Women like to have A man that can satisfy all their want and need.
2007-01-01 03:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by shahab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must not really like you that much to act like that. You should have a deep discussion with him about this and consider breaking up with him unless he changes his behavior.
2007-01-01 03:45:05 · answer #11 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋