My ex-husband has our daughter. He is remarried to a girl who treats my daughter like ****. I don't know if I should try to take her or leave her w/ her dad. She has gone to school there for 6 years & is a daddy's girl. her step mom treats here like crap & the other kids fine. What do I do?
2007-01-01 03:28:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
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2007-01-01 03:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by f319 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 00:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find a good lawyer first and see what he can advise. Are you sure your daughter is being mistreated? Why would your ex allow such a thing? I'm divorced and I have full custody of my two sons. This does seem to be a growing trend in America where divorced fathers are getting full custody of their children. With me I was always the primary parent to my children and the ex was always the absent parent. That is one of the reasons that I divorced her and won full custody of my children. There are also several other reasons, but I wont go there now. Good luck and Happy New Year.
2007-01-01 03:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by ally_oop_64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there is some reason we don't know about that has caused you to already lose custody of your daughter. Don't go trying to fight and break up this family. You probably only know the bad stuff because your daughter isn't likely to call you when her step mom does nice stuff for you, she just calls you to vent. Just be supportive and if it is PHYSICAL abust call child protective services.. otherwise mind your own business.
2007-01-01 03:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by iampatsajak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure your daughter is telling the truth about her step mom. If she is a daddy's girl there may be a lot of jealous going on. If she is telling the truth first try talking to your ex. Make sure he is aware of the problem. If she been there six years you may have a problem getting her back. Why did you lose her in the beginning? If it was for a bad reason you will have to prove that problem no longer exist.
2007-01-01 03:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by pms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lost custody the first time there is a reason. If she was actually being mistreaded her dad would know because as you said she is a Daddy's Girl, his #1. Stop being spiteful and let him and the family be happy, stick with your visitation or ask for more. There's a reason you didn't get full custody in the first place.
2007-01-01 04:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by RitzFitz29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 12:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-27 12:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said what she wanted. Does she want out or is she content to stay were she is? Remember - you are also only seeing one side of the story and there may be a lot more to it then you think. Are you encouraging her to think badly about this woman or encouraging her to do her best to respect and honor this woman who is the female head of that home?
2007-01-01 07:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All Hel* would break lose before my hubby took and raised my kids! Why does your ex have your daughter and not you? Are you unfit? I couldnt imagen a world without my kids and I would do every thing in my power to keep them. If you want to raise them then yes go for it!!!
2007-01-01 03:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kendra M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋