until now there've been several times of sex without condoms...the first time was about 7 week ago...he irregularly uses cocaine and marijuana...he appears to be reluctant or even irritated whenever i tried to ask about his past relationships and i have no idea how sexually active he had been before me...hes 34 and im 22...although he never insist on protectionless sex when i suggest that we do use condom..im starting to worry about diseases i could possibly catch from him...should i confront him with my concerns?
2007-01-01 03:28:34 · 3 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First STOP SLEEPING WITH HIM UNTIL YOU ARE TESTED. If he is hiding his past, it seems to be a BIG red sign shouting "I have stds!!!". Besides this, he is 12 years older than you and still partying it up, you have to assume that he was much more hardcore when he was younger. If he really likes you and you want to be with him, then get tested, continue to insist on using a condom, and demand that he is tested too. You can get tested for free at most local health units with results in less than a week or two.
2007-01-01 03:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. you need to leave this man if he is on drugs, its not safe for you.
I strongly suggest that you go and get tested. You are very young you can find a better person.
2007-01-01 03:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its too late now. He's probably married and has a house full of kids. How do you know?
2007-01-01 03:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋