We had a great relationship for the first 6 months and then she wanted me to move in and we were engaged. Then she about 2 months after this she started pulling away. We kind of split up with each other but she said that she wanted to keep dating. But she proceeded to not include me in things yet she still said how much she loved me and wanted to be with me. I eventually got sick of the brush off and told her forget it. She hasn't called me since and I don't know if she would still have feelings.
2007-01-01 03:25:38 · 14 answers · asked by kws504 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do that. Don't sit around wondering if she still has feelings for you or not. The reason you broke it off was because those feeling were not enough. Sometimes love just isn't enough. When the person doesn't include you in their life or ignores the way you feel when you express yourself to them. The best way to get over it is to stop looking back. There's a whol new year ahead of you and it is loaded with tons of possibilities. Find yourself some new hobbies join a fitness club or find a new job take a class or two. What are your interest? Focus on you and not her.
2007-01-01 03:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, it sounds like she doesn't want a long term involvement with you but she likes having you around. It could be that maybe she thought twice about being engaged and eventually getting married. She may not be ready. Or she may be tired of being a couple and just want to see you occasionally.
In any event I think you made the right decision. If you're serious and she's not then you need to move on and find someone that you make happy and who makes you happy. No one likes to be on suspended animation. "Does she want me or doesn't she?"
Better to find out now that her heart is not really into you seriously than after the wedding. She says she still loves you but you haven't heard from her since you told her you are not a phone a call that she can put on hold and get back to when she has time.
That right there should tell you something. Move on and find happiness with someone who's ready and willing to share their heart with you. Good luck!
2007-01-01 03:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your pregnant. I did a home pregnancy test last week too and it was positive, i was in denial so i did 3 more. lol, they where all positive, so i went to the doctor and sure enough i am prego:( I think you should STOP taking the pill because if you are pregnant it is going to harm your baby. Go to the doctor ASAP so you are sure on what to do. BTW no birth control is 100% effective I even know people who got pregnant with the IUD! Good luck and take care of yourself! Oh ya almost forgot, Everything happens for a reason do not take this as a bad thing because it is Truly a blessing! You think everyone will be upset and maybe at first they will but they'll get over it!
2016-05-23 02:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love shouldnt be hard if you have to push for answers i would move on and chalk it up as a new life lesson. I also think men and women need thier own outlet and should do thinks with other people so they dont get smothered. Space might just be the right thing now. Start the new year fresh.
2007-01-01 03:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by stefani h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you, honey, but she doesn't have the same feelings as you. But, you did the right thing, if you are being ingored. But, doll you need to put yourself first before you put anyone else first.
2007-01-01 03:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on if I were you. Whatever is going on, she's not working on fixing it, and then that leaves you to do all the work, imagine if you were married with kids with her and had to put up with all this garbage. Move on and count yourself lucky.
2007-01-01 03:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ding ding - sounds like a lack of communication. You should talk to her about it, maybe she just needed some space.
2007-01-01 03:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has moved on. Now you need to. You deserve better!
2007-01-01 03:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions always speak louder than words. If she left, let her go. If she had feelings for you she would still be there.
2007-01-01 03:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by healergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like games to me, she has to grow up and be honest with you. One about they way she feels and two about your time together...you don't need to be guessing all the time.
Get real with her....
2007-01-01 03:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋