Okay I met this guy at school in the 7th grade. I didnt think he was cute, I didnt think he was ugly, I didnt see him as someone I would ever go out with. So we were friends. We talked all the time. We would be on myspace and chat for hours. We'd be on yahoo messenger and we'd chat for hours. Sady he had to move. I was kinda sad. After he moved, We kept in touch, and talk amost everyday. I started to see him as more than a friend. I Liked him. I couldnt quiet say i Loved him, but i new i liked him more than a friend. When we talk together he always tells me about his life, and sometimes his plans for the future. He even sent me pictures of what his house looks like. I tell my firends about how we talk non-stop everyday. They beleive that he has a thing for me. I for one didnt think so. I liked more than 5 guys, and all of them thought i was 'not their type', which i knew meant i wasnt the popular slutty girl. I just wanted to know, could we be more than friends???
2007-01-01 03:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he's moved a long way away from you, its probably not worth starting up a relationship
no offence, but you sound very young, why not wait a few years, you'll find that men mature as they get older (well, some of them!) and they will stop just going for popular girls
2007-01-01 03:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be if you let it be. I had a relationship very similar to the one you described. And well, how should I put it... When you are in a relationship with a good friend, everything about the relationship will be much more intense. The love will be stronger, the sex will be much more satisfying. Overall, you two will enjoy yourselves a lot more. Granted, you state that you don't really love him, but it sounds like he loves you. If you think you'd be willing to jump down the rabbit hole to see where it goes, you might find yourself loving him a lot more than you think. But be forewarned, a burnt relationship with a friend once you cross that sexual bridge is not necessarily something you can recover from. You're friendship will likely be over. So weigh the odds, it definitely sounds like he's interested in you, think you could be equally committed to him?
Um, not to mention, sounds like he respects you for who you are. Now that's something to consider...
Now, I'm shooting this from the perspective that you are past high school and much older now. I'm assuming he owns his house now? If I am incorrect and you are still in high school, then I really apologize and recommend that you take it slowly. Enjoy your time in school and don't rush anything. My relationship with my friend didn't get started until we were both 25.
2007-01-01 11:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tragicfame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just might be a good friend that you can talk to. My advice is: don't tell him you like him first. It's just the law. Trust me. Just keep doing what you do and see where it goes. You don't have to have an answer now, right? If you're good friends, there's always room to become a relationship. However, if you tell him you like him and he doesn't, things get complicated when they don't have to be...hope this helps
2007-01-01 11:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by dftba711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definately likes u and if he has what he is showing, better propose to him. How many are able to dream to make a house when others are busy with sluts. This guy will surely one day make it big. Do remember me at that time plz.....
2007-01-01 11:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by hotjuicygal4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think at this age every girl take serious to boys .
and girls are very sensitive
boys show there kindness and love to us and we think they like us or love us its not the truth
its just attraction affection which Ur feeling as love
i don't want to hUrt ur feeling but don't take any guy serious later u will be in depression as the guy may say it was just my friendship towards u
happy new year and think about Ur studies at this age
2007-01-01 11:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the first girls. Be friends with him till like 9th grade than start thinking.
^_^
2007-01-01 11:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there could be potential for a relationship. If you want to pursue it I think you should go for it!
2007-01-01 11:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
7th grade is too young. Boys really don't care about girls at that age.
2007-01-01 11:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kacky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stop it, stop it right now.
2007-01-01 11:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Poster22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋