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Im talking about meeting a girl for the first time and you she reveals to you-
surprise i was wearing a wig- because i lost my hair during chemo ( but it will grow back )
and i survived cancer.
How would you react???

2007-01-01 03:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by ??ThiNk PiNk?? 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

Good guys would say,, “Congrats!! I’m so happy for you, must have been a real ordeal, happy you’re going to be ok!! Don’t worry about your hair it’ll grow back.” Assure her she’s just as sexy with or without hair!! (remember Demi Moore in the movie?)

Little boys tuck their tails between their legs and runaway whining. Stay away from them !!

2007-01-01 04:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 2 0

The chemo would have no bearing on me and the hair is a temporary issue.

I would have more concern over whether or not the cancer comes back and getting involved with someone whom I may fall in love with being taken from me prematurely.

I plan to die first (I couldn't imagine it the other way around.)

2007-01-01 11:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 2 0

I guess as long as it grow back it's OK and that's good that you survived cancer BUT that will scare away many guys so, and I don't mean to offend you, I think you should hide it until your hair comes back. For me anyway, if I really liked you and I thought you were special that wouldn't affect me but if you meet a guy that acts differently, despite your feelings for him, you should forget him because he obviously isn't strong enough to handle being in a relationship with you.

2007-01-01 11:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by jkola 2 · 2 0

I would react by feeling a little sorry for you , but if i liked you so far and you were a cute girl, i would not care in the least. If your face is pretty, your hair will grow back , so personally i wouldn't care, so if you are referring to yourself, be confident, its not a big deal...and good luck with your recovery. take care

2007-01-01 11:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by big stan 5 · 2 0

I wouldn't have a negative reaction to that. I think most guys would agree with me.

Any guy that did have a negative reaction should be ignored anyway.

Congrats on finishing chemo and best of luck to you.

2007-01-01 11:03:52 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 2 0

Congrats!

2007-01-01 11:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Be glad that the chemo worked?

Probably wrap her up in a big impulsive hug and then get embarrassed about it. (The hug, that is.)

2007-01-01 11:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by dagorath1123 2 · 2 0

I think Yvonne has the correct answer

2007-01-01 11:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Pink 5 · 2 0

I don't think it matters to guys. If the guy likes you, he likes you!

2007-01-01 11:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 2 0

It wouldn't bother me.

2007-01-01 11:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Poster22 2 · 3 0

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