Me and one of my close friends have been talking about doing a small road trip just chill and hang out. On several occassions she has mentioned to me that she does have a b/f but is reall excited about conducting this road trip eith just us. What is the best thing to do is this situation. Should I just cancel out of respect for the b/f or should I just say screw it and just go?
2007-01-01 02:56:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you guys are good friends, and are sure of keeping it that way, then go! If you feel there's a loophole, and something could possibly happen between the two of you, I suggest you skip it.
Try making this road trip a group thingy. Call a bunch of your pals rather than just the two of you. That way, you're sure to have the harmless fun, and leave out anything uncalled for.
GoodLuck!
2007-01-01 03:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel? Why would you cancel if she's so excited about the trip? The boyfriend is her issue to deal with, not yours. All I can tell you is that no man - boyfriend or husband - would get away with telling me I couldn't take a road trip with my male best friend. If trust isn't there, there is no point to the relationship.
2007-01-01 03:03:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's okay with the two of you going on the trip alone and you're clearly just friends, then it shouldn't be a problem. If he doesn't like the idea, back out of it. There's no need to make him feel uncomfortable
2007-01-01 02:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the very least, the two of you should talk with the b/f. Are you wanting more than friendship with this girl? If so, this is a bad thing, this trip.
2007-01-01 02:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by somefun042000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point when you and her get into a car or an airplane or bus....you have both already marginized the b/f. Really, just the fact that you have these plans already makes it obvious. You probably like this girl and if she goes with you to "Chill" then she likes you as well. NOW, if this other dude is JUST a boyfriend to her, then, you are within your rights to pursue her. I wish you the very best of luck with that. I lost a really good friend doing exactly what you are doing right now. He hates me, she still loves me and wants me to make her breakfast right now......I gotta go.
2016-05-23 02:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if youre just mates, i dont really see the problem, but maybe you might just wanna double check with her bf that is ok for you to go with her, and just to reasure him that nothing is goin to happen between you and his girl
2007-01-01 02:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go, and next time if you are thinking of going out again with just your friend, make sure you tell her that its only you two.
2007-01-01 03:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be a bad thing if you dont get up to anything.
2007-01-01 03:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't sound good for the BF, but man you should go ahead and take her, and if you like her, see what's up! ie YOU!!
HAVE FUN! ENJOY!
2007-01-01 02:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Long Beach Moose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you planning on doing anything with her? If you are then it is pretty bad, but if not, it is alright.
2007-01-01 02:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋