How to move on from a perfect relationship but the flame slowly simmered?
2007-01-01 02:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't find a new one. Just be with yourself for awhile. Do what you enjoy, grow as a person. Hang out with friends, work hard at school/job, have fun, do volunteer work, visit your family. Knowing who you are and doing what you like is the best way to heal and to eventually meet the right person.
And keep in mind, if it was the "perfect relationship" why did it end? If the person passed away, that's one thing - and I suggest grief counseling. But if it just didn't work out, it's not "perfect." Something was obviously wrong, somewhere.
2007-01-01 02:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Torchbug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start something new....an activity, hobby; go places with friends and meet new people; volunteer actively; get a new job....
Delete his/her contact info from your email, home phone and cell phone today to lower the temptation to connect back with your old beau when things get tough or lonely. Do it today.
2007-01-01 10:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mari N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explore where you live im sure there are plenty of activities or sights that you will not have seen -- go with friends or go alone just get out and enjoy life instead of sitting here moping
2007-01-01 10:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to rebuild the relationship with yourself (do something you really like, travel, read, pamper yourself, mingle...) and take time to reconsider your priorities.
2007-01-01 10:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find the courage to be honest.it happens but honesty will save both parties from unnecessary drama.
2007-01-01 10:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take up nitting and get some cats.
2007-01-01 10:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋