I am getting married on Valentine's day. My boyfriend and I have been together for all of four years. He left his ex girlfriend for me, and she is giving him alot of problems. The woman is alot older, 30, he's 32, I'm 20, she has a child already with another man and has never been married. "White trash", you know? Anyway, a girlfriend of mine overheard her saying thet she was going to try to crash my wedding, and she sometimes drives by my house, prank calls, usual stuff like that. Invitations have been sent for the wedding. If she shows up uninvited can I have her arrested?
2007-01-01 02:28:16 · 13 answers · asked by India 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh no. I can assure you he doesn't have feelings for that ugly, white trash whore.
Why the Hell would he?
2007-01-01 02:57:29 · update #1
I am about to marry white trash? Ummm, no, I don't think so. My boyfriend comes from a very wealthy family and he loves me more than anything. I wouldn't start yapping about how anyone until I actually knew who I was dealing with, Cow, Bella.
And Ummm..."Tryumph"...you can't spell. And I highly doubt you've ever been to a club you nerd terd, so shut up, please.
Thanks.
2007-01-01 04:16:09 · update #2
Bella, you need to grow up. I am of age now and that has nothing to do with my question. You can take your idiotic hater attitude somewhere it's wanted. Let me guess, you had a baby outside of marriage right? Is that why you're being so defensive? Are you white trash, sweetie?
This is all very entertaining but I have things to do and a wedding to plan, and fortunately, unlike you I have a life outside of cyberspace. No one thinks your answer is cute, the 6 thumbs down rating you've gotten says so. And Concita, again, I really don't know who you think you are either. Telling unattractive, pathetic women you're getting married really brings out the worst in them. Haters.
2007-01-01 04:47:46 · update #3
Yes you can have her forcibly removed from the proceedings. And if your lucky she'll be drinking a little. She can be arrested for public intoxication. But if you are feeling a little mischievous on your wedding day, you can get her license plate number and phone in an anonymous 'tip' to the police department, and say There is this car swerving and throwing beer bottles out of the car. She just ran a car off the road. Then give her license plate number.
2007-01-01 02:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell your boyfriend, soon to be husband, to grow a spine and tell her to beat it. Everything she is doing is designed to drive you nuts. Does he not care? Are there still feelings for her? Does he want her to sabotage your wedding?
Her behaviour is actionable, meaning you can have the phone company monitor who's calling you with harrassing calls. Her "drive bys" could be construed as stalking.
Could you have her arrested if she shows up to your wedding uninvited? Possibly. Do you know anyone on the police force willing to take her in for "disorderly conduct"? If your wedding is going to be in a "public" location, she can be asked to respect your wishes, but she doesn't have to. Further, do you want that ugly scene played out on your wedding day? Who knows what awful lies she'll be screaming at the top of her lungs? Don't wait to find out.
It's time for your husband-to-be to make a stand. His future wife's concerns need to be addressed. If he has so little regard for your feelings now, how are things going to be in the future? A wedding is supposed to be all about the bride. It's her day. Does he want some "tramp" from his past ruining your memories for eternity?
2007-01-01 10:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by RepoMan18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can but it would be better to ahve security just for that. Show security a picture of her and if she gts close they will detain her till the cops get there. Becasue if she crashes the wedding and isn't stopped she could cause lots of problems with your future in-laws. SO don't fret and just get some security to stop her and the wedding goes on. And if you do have her arrested make sure you press charges because if you don't she will continue her harassmant knowing you won't press charges. ANd Congraulations on getting MArried.
2007-01-01 10:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You most certainly can! And you might want to do a little something extra like a stink bomb or calling the cops and telling them you think she's abusing her kid. Cops jump when they hear that. I would never let some wench like that ruin my big day. You are right for asking. Don't listen to these other folks, you are an adult reguardless of how young you are, and if you want to get married, more power to you.
2007-01-01 13:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Butch 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can get a restraining order. You and your friend go to the police station and fill it out. Your friend being the witness to the ex's admitting she's stalking you.
You can have her arrested too. If its a private setting definitely. If its in a public place (park, etc), then it might be harder unless she's disturbing the peace.
Have someone keep an eye out for her.
2007-01-01 10:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I apologize if this offends, but what does a 32 year old man see in a 20 year old girl??
If you have been together for 4 years, that means that a 28 year old man was dating a 16 year old child.
I think you have bigger problems than his ex...
You should really reconsider this wedding thing!!
2007-01-01 10:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. G 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
More than likely she won't show up. If she does, I believe you can have her arrested. However, that isn't something you should worry about on your big day. Put your maid of honor and the best man in charge of taking care of her if she shows.
2007-01-01 10:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by ubiquitous_mr_lovegrove 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ouch.........
i say juz hire some guards or bouncer to keep an eye for the "univited".... if that still goes out of hand then you can call the police....
All the best for your wedding, hope everything went well ok
=)
2007-01-01 10:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by tuken 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LEAVE HIM
thats the thing sbout age damn girls like older men for some reason and men like younger
me im normal 2 years older ill do and younger
2007-01-01 10:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by JamesC 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you most certainly can. Alert the ushers to the possible problem and you or your guy should let her know what will happen if she tries to crash the wedding.
2007-01-01 10:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋