me and my b/f of 3 years decided to go on a break 3 weeks ago!
we have just got back together again and things have been great then last night i found out he had slept with a girl that he cheated on me with when we first started going out!!!
i am so hurt and constantly feel sick!!!!
i dont know what to do please help!!! i love him so much!!!!
2007-01-01 02:26:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is one rule, and one rule only, if you love someone you dont cheat, thats it and all about it, love means you dont want to be with anyone else, no matter how horny you get, sorry love, you will have to do what you think best, but dont waste your life with a loser.
2007-01-01 09:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by magpyre 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you went on a "break" after being together for 3 years may tell you a lot right there.
Just because you love someone with a great passion does not mean that it will be returned equally, sad but true.
You owe yourself a "break" ! Take a few months and dedicate all your energies to better yourself. Put everyone else on the back-burner.
So much of our lives are at the mercy of the interactions of other people. The trick is to keep them as limited as possible.
Someone else will come along, usually at a time and place when you least expect it.
2007-01-01 02:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he got away with it the first time so maybe having a break to him was a licence to repeat the experience....yet feel comfortable in the knowledge he isn't actually cheating as you aren't currently together....and of course he knew he'd be coming back to you... the only thing you can do is dump his sorry @rse......tell him you can do better and the three weeks proved he can't even wait that long to have you again...what if you went on a business trip for three weeks and he got that impulse?....
2007-01-01 02:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by JackLove 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has demonstrated to you that he is not trustworthy, he is not dependable, and he does not really love you back. If those are qualities that you are ok with, then you should stay with him. But if not, if you do not want those qualities in a bf, then you should demp him and find someone better for you. No one deserves a bf, or gf, who treats them like that. Sure it will be hard to let him go, but it will be for the best in the long run.
2007-01-01 02:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK to him.... there is no other way out of this. without no shouting and no pleading and no hitting u have to both sit down and see where he wants to go with the realtionship.
only by tlaking to him willl u see what kind of threat does this girl pose on ur relationship.
if he is AS wiling as you are to make it worth then give him a chance. but be sure ur time is precious u must not waste it on somehow who does not deserve you.
2007-01-01 02:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lara^mt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think u know the only sensible answers to this problem don't u..... how can u ever trust some one who has cheated on u b4......and i'd b very suspicious bout him coincidentally falling back into bed wiv some floozy ....hes obviously not fussed bout ur
feelings!
2007-01-01 03:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure, he's relatively some difficulty, yet that's no longer the element. human beings don't think in him because of the fact they think of he's relatively surely worth the difficulty. they suspect for different motives. They have been raised to have self assurance extremely some the time. faith isn't a logical subject.
2016-11-25 20:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by krausz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that is was cheating if he did this when you were first going out. If you were already going steady then of course he has to be punished. I would suggest that you grab his pee pee, slap it with a ruler 10 times , tell him he's a bad boy, kiss it a few times and then forgive him.
2007-01-01 02:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were on a break!! BUT I would be so p*ssed that he went back to her - not sure about this one, depends on how much trust is in the relationship
2007-01-01 02:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, you are better of without him its obvious. he would cheat on u again if you stay with him so be clever and brave and leave him. you would find someone who would love you back as you love him and respect you.
2007-01-01 02:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋