my grandma, rosemary passed away in june/july 2006 it was sudden and sad, she lived in florida with the rest of my dads side of the family so that is where the funeral was, we drove there from ky she died 1 or 2 days before or after my dads b-day and her funeral was on my b-day 7/3 i still can't believe that happened to such a great woman, i believe that all people go to heaven when they die , i also believe in god, now i know for sure that someone who loves me is watching over me now, my mom and dad tell me that she is most likely to be happier and shes in a much better place but i find it hard to believe i always thought that she was the happiest woman when she was with the family? i thought that miserable sick people died happy? so why can't i believe that she was happy to be going so soon?
2007-01-01 01:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
because you didn't get to say goodbye,
just remember there are only two guarantees in life,, death and taxes,
everyone dies,
2007-01-01 01:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is an unknown so it very hard for us to think about what it would be like. But the bible tell us that heaven in a place that there is no afflictions, no hurt, no pain and no sorrow. So your grandmother can't be unhappy, she made the best of the time she had here, but heaven is ever lasting. It doesn't stop. You know your grandmother may have appeared to be happy all the time here, but I know everyone on this earth go through struggles some big and some small. She is now in a happy place that last for forever. I hope this helps. God Bless
2007-01-01 11:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we never now why god takes are loved ones when he does i have to try to look at it as god has some thing for them to do in haven that there work on earth is completed and now they have to do some think that can be done in the fleshly body you need to look back on her live and remember the good she did and always remember that also try talking to god he is always listening and knows how we feel and he will give you an answer that will give you peace inside and you will know he is the only one that can help you understand more then anyone can
2007-01-01 12:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cannot be happy for her coz u loved her, u wanted her here with u, it's not that u are selfish but you miss her and i can understand that. U would have wanted to do more things with her!
Death is so misterious and no one knows what lies afterwards, if it is heaven then your grandmother is happy coz she can still keep an eye on u all...
your story really moved me.
2007-01-01 09:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Any 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is so hard to lose someone. i think you cant be happy because you miss her so much. you rather her be here happy with you. but if she is heaven believe me she is much happier there, no matter if she died to soon. time will ease your pain. so hang in there
2007-01-01 09:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was her time to join eternity, so please try to accept this. It is always sad when people we love pass away.We can accept this in our minds, it is more complicated to accept this on an emotional level. Try to give yourself more time and accept Gods wisdom and will.
2007-01-01 11:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No funeral on my birthday but my uncle died on my birthday too
oh i dunno sorry
2007-01-01 10:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by JamesC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋