A very handsome male friend who i and my partner has been friends with forever, keeps looking directly into in the eyes, and saying to me that i have a sultry look, and come to bed eyes..... would you think he was just being a man, and using male banter, or is he trying to make a play for me?..... which i wont allow to happen anyway....what?
2007-01-01 01:24:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You see don't read into it if it really doesn't matter to you because the truth is you will never know. It could either of what you said. So just leave it like that. If you get into this I wanna know thing he may perceive you being inquisitive as being on the same page as he is. So just leave it alone.
2007-01-01 01:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, as a man: Yes and yes.
This is witty man-banter that costs nothing...and if it ever happens to work he'll take the opportunity. As long as you know what you want, the only question is: Is it too annoying, to you or your partner? If it is, ask him to knock it off. You're a couple and if he's going to continue to be your friend, he needs to be prepared to respect that. On the other hand, if it's not particularly bothering either of you, this has just become your friend's odd little quirk that you'll all be able to laugh about when you're forty.
Do what feels right. If it makes you cringe, or your partner want to punch this guy in the face...you've got to get that out in the open.
2007-01-01 01:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by David G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
play 4 u
2007-01-01 01:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by 123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him? If it's insulting enough to you that you feel the need for clarification, go to the source, not strangers. When he tells you what his intentions are, you can lay it out for HIM as you just did for us and save your 'partner' having to confront him for something that may be as innocent as a flirtation.
2007-01-01 01:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's your friend. Has he made passes at you before? Have he tried to get with you in the past? If the answer is yes, then you have your answer. If its just a casual flirting thing, then don't worry about it. And if it's not going to happen, why worry about it in the first place?
Neurotically Yours,
NightSpawn
2007-01-01 01:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by the_nightspawn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
making a play
2007-01-01 01:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by livin well 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants something let him do it but all people like to have relationships with handsome man but never never never do something wrong just because he is handsome !!!!!!
what about other things
take care!
2007-01-01 01:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by luckyducky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you won't let it happen what's the difference? He's telling you how much he'd like to get into your bed etc. etc.
2007-01-01 01:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is making a play
2007-01-01 01:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hoping for a signal that tells him he can take it to the next level.
2007-01-01 01:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋