Is this girl interested in me?

Question

Ok, i went to a works party, and this girl, janet, who iv known for 2 months was there - we spent the night dancing together, infact she was dancing very provocitavely infront of me, and then i asked if i could crash at hers, she not only agreed but also let me sleep in her bed with her, although nothing happened as we're technically just work colleagues, finally in the morning she bought me a full english breakfast in bed.
Now, i do like this girl, and the 'dirty dancing' and letting me share her bed should imply that shes interested, but i have to work with her every day, so i just want to be as sure as i can before i make a move.
The only real complication is that i'm 18 and she is 23, so i think maybe she'll see me as too young for her, but on the other hand, if im too young to be her bf surely i would be too young to sleep in her bed too.
So any opinions on whether this girl is interested in me or not would be really helpful, as its importrant im sure before i go any further

Answer 1

I would say its looking good for you so far. Just to make sure I would hint about a film you love to see in the cinema and see what she says. If she says she would love to see it too, then suggest going together and you will know straight away from her reply whether shes interested. Hopefully she will ! Best of luck !!

Answer 2

first of all age isn't a great issue here - you are both adults and she must be aware of your age so it cant be an issue for her, it is maturity which matters, you can get 23 year old who act like 14 year olds and 18's who act more like 40's

You are the best person to answer your question - is this girl the type that would let just anyone go back to her house and share a bed? If she didn't like you in the first place surely she wouldn't have wasted time dancing in front of you - unless of course she was drunk

Why not suggest you buy her a drink after work to thank her for letting you stay the night - that way it can be seen as just a casual thing and if she wants to keep your relationship on a strictly work basis she can decline and neither or you will be embarrassed. You will soon be able to decide for yourself whether she wants to have a platonic relationship of not.

Good luck

Answer 3

you prob make her feel younger and special as shes older than you and cant beleave that someone like you would be interested in someone her age. I think theres something there myself but i wouldnt rush things.

Why not asking her to the pics or bowling or something fun- never go for a meal on first date because that can be used later on to talk about where your friendships leading to- better to see how things turn out on a more active and exciting date first so you know what sort of personality shes got (you wouldnt like to go out with someone who isnt interested in things you like)

Answer 4

What a lucky fella...i would just carry on as normal, if she really is interested, you will soon know, just tell her you really enjoyed your night together and how nice it was to have breakfast in bed, she will pounce if she wants you..lucky sod..

Answer 5

fill ya boots m8 b4 u miss yr chance, sounds like she likes ya.
ask her 2 a film slip yr hand in hers and c what happens. if she ok with it yr b slippin more than that by the end of the night.

good luck m8 ;o)

Answer 6

she sound as if she likes you but you need to chat to her to make sure you have'nt got your wires crossed, be carefull women are funny creatures but if i let you sleep in my bed that would mean i am interested in you. be honest with her about your feelings and you may be surprised. best of luck xx

Answer 7

ask her out straight