I used to like this guy. A lot (and for quite a while, too). After some time, he got a girlfriend, and I got jelous. Eventually I got over him and he and his girlfriend broke up. I started liking him again, although not as intensely as before (before, I would lose my appetite, get butterflies, etc.). Anyway, I still kinda like him, so here's my question.
His recent conduct indicates that maybe he likes me more than a friend, and while that's good, I can't help thinking:
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!
Also I've never dated, which definitely means that if any should happen he would be my first boyfriend...
I'm sorry, I think I'm just ranting
Anyway, this brings me to thinking, what's worse: getting rejected or not getting rejected and having no clue as to what to do next (which I'm beginning to fear)?
2007-01-01 01:07:32 · 6 answers · asked by confused lola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you need to DO anything? It will all sort itself out eventually. THE most important thing you can do for yourself is to realize you are a good, worthwhile, valuable, lovable person no matter what happens with A guy or guys. That way, the world won't end if you are rejected or confused for a time.
2007-01-01 01:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to that question.If you have never dated before take it slow if he does show an interest in you.And as far as rejection goes no one ever gets used to it that is part of life and the growing process.
2007-01-01 09:20:34 · answer #2 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can try going out with him... and if you think he isn't the right one for you, just tell him, and hope that he will understand, blah blah, and break up and find another bf. that's it. But really, you should decide this kind of stuff yourself. What if you listen to us and then later you really regret it, and you come and blame us? Hey, we wouldn't want that ok.
2007-01-01 09:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by AF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see if he seems interested in u. but know that he may go back with his girlfriend leaving u feeling bad. so wait awhile and see where his heart is. don't rush it. don't be a rebound girl that he just is with to help him get over the breakup. wait to get involved, save yourself from heartache.
2007-01-01 09:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the right guy find a new one
2007-01-01 09:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's worse [or better], the pain of acting, or the pain of not acting...?
sorry, but you have to decide for yourself...
2007-01-01 09:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋