in many religons it says that its forbidden to use anything else beside bodies during sex then why?

Question

then why are condoms permitted still.if using a condom is forbidden then how do couples use birth control.people who arent using them for wrong reasons like husband and wife.if no other thing than bodies are permitted then that means condoms,toys are forbidden.but how do couples delay births when islam and many religons say have a child after 2 yrs now how do people not have a child for 2 yrs when it says husband and wife not having sex is bad then how do they wait 2 yrs without going against God.now either wer wrong and other things are permitted or God is wrong.if condoms arent permitted but ppl say ther ok to use then does it mean toys and masturbation are ok too.i dont get this straighten things out can you and tell me where im wrong

Answer 1

condoms are good, sex toys(like dildos) are bad.
think a little and you'll understand.

Answer 2

Well.
Do you ask yourself why they use the condom?
You will say to prevent STD.
Do you ask yourself again Why there are STD?
I will answer this question!
To begin with STD. There is no any indicator in the era of religion of present of any disease related to sex. You will say How I know? Okay! We know that all religion against having sex with man or women unless they married to each other. So you can't have sex with someone else. If you a man, you will look at your wife and vice versa. They were follow the rules in the religion. They were better than us. and Plus, if the notice any thing abnormal they will ask immediately to find the answer in the religion.
AIDS, syphillis, gonorrhea,...etc. All from uncontrolled sex.
Do you know when the scientist discover AIDS?
anther quesiton
Do you know How they discover it? It was among homosexual gays! They died.
There are a lot of things you have to look at.

If the husband and his wife don't cheat on each other, they will not use the condom of course. b/c they trust each other.

You will say, So How will they make birth control?
I would say by using Birth Control Bills which prescribed by the Physician in the hospital.

You said that "Islam and many religions say have a child after 2 years"
This is not true. I recommend you to back to your religion and find out the right answer.

then, you say unreasonable question regardless the God.
Of course, we are the one who make the mistake.

Toys, masturbation, ...(!!!!) are forbidden.


I hope you understand what I mean!

It is good to ask to find the answer. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Have you ever wonder why humans use Condoms & birth control things, In Gen. 3:16, That is when woman lost their knowledge of when she can concieve, If Eve had not given in to that upright creature call the serpent, She would have a child that would have been born with eternal life, But God cursed her reproductive organs, & he greatly multiply her conceptions, You don't see the animal kingdom having to use any kind of protection,Because God did not take away their knowledge of reproduction only The woman. No it is not wrong to use Condoms Or anything, just as long the sexual relationship is done within marriage & male & female only. By the way, I am a Christian speaking this way to you.

Answer 4

Even the ancient Egyptians had condoms---probably even farther back-----sheep intestines, etc., were used.

The church made this rule as they wanted more and more members. The Orthodox of Islam, Judaism, and many other groups say that sex should be only to beget children. I am glad that my religion also says that sex is a gift from G-d-for pleasure, also. Then, I am not Orthodox in practice.

Answer 5

The purpose for many people on Yahoo! Questions and Answers is not the derivation of truth, but the accumulation of points. If truth is expressed it is an accident. The only thing many people will require to know about any religion in order to write something about it is that it is not their religion. Unfortunately, their are proponents of every religion who know little about their own religion or cling to atavistic aspects of that religion and society in the hopes that social change will fall back to a time that they falsely believe would be better. Human creatures, after all, are a frail species.

Answer 6

You will have to find the book, chapter and verse for that. It does not ring any bells to me. I don't think it came from the Bible.

Toys destroy the meaning of sex. You cannot feel passion for a toy unless you are a little disturbed. Sex should be reserved for the love of your life, not a sex toy.

The Bible says that we should not deny our spouse our body except in times of agreement and then only when it is for prayer and fasting.
That is not a command to have sex every day.
Many people have sex regularly, but do not have a baby until two years later.

Sometimes pastors deal with couple that are worried about not being able to have a child, but God gives in His time.

grace2u

Answer 7

To start with, I hope that one day in the near future, our grandchildren would not question our justification for riding a car when we can time travel, mating when we can have e-sex and when we can have e-food and e-energy!!!
Talking about religions, none of them originally supported or encouraged family planning as an instrument to controlling economy! I know that Islam encouraged a form of withdrawal prior to ejaculation (Azl), if you have to. Christianity and other religions too does not state the need to limit the number of your children for fear of poverty!!!
Islam and for your information, modern medicine agrees on the need to breast feed your children exclusively for a period of 18-24 months. This does not deprive the couples of their psychological needs for each other. Try Azl.

Answer 8

Um, you do realize that this is 2007, not 1507 right? Live in the REAL word man.
This isn't the dark ages, we don't base our actions on some outdated book of bronze age mythology. At least no one with more than a teaspoonfull of brain matter does anyway...

Answer 9

He uses periods. He just doesn't bother with capitals or spaces. Kind of weird I think. He might be just a bit wound up.
Use the condoms. Tarp your load trucker, and prevent the spread of diseases.

Answer 10

These rules of religion were written before the existence of condoms, so therules should be updated in order to be applicable to the present day. You shouldn't take too literally stuff that was written thousands and thousands of years ago.
Condoms are not the enemy here.

Answer 11

Strictly speaking , sex is for reproduction and any technique that is not directly related to same is forbidden by some religions.