how do you prove to a girlfriend that you are the better man than her current one?

Answer 1

if you have to prove it - walk away and find someone else

Answer 2

Tough situation.

Honestly, time is going to be a factor. It may take some time to do this as you "jump through hoops" to prove this. First of all, are you even sure you are the better man? I'm not saying that to be mean, but there must be a reason she is with someone else.

You can do many things to prove your affections and worth but ultimately, she is the one that will have to feel this in her heart. She may truly like you and have feelings for you, but if her heart tells her something else, you may not have a chance.

I guess the greatest thing would be for her current man to really mess up. I hate for that to happen to anyone, but for your sake, that would be a good start. You can hope that this happens, but don't hold your breath.

Lastly, I really feel that people should just be themselves. No one should have to try so hard to make someone like them. If there is real chemistry there and a future, it will happen naturally. Forcing things is never a good tactic. If it doesn't work out with this girl, there WILL be someone else that will appreciate all that you have to offer without you having to figure out ways to prove your worth to them.

Good luck.

Answer 3

If I'm reading the question correctly, you are seeing her behind her boyfriend's back and are trying to get her to finish with him for you.

My first question would have to be: why in God's name do you want her to do that? It sounds like you're getting the best of the bargain as things stand. I can't believe you would rather be in the boyfriend's position.

Assuming you know what you're doing and you're sure this is what you want and that she won't do the same to you in six months time, I'd suggest making her choose between him and you. You can only do this by walking away and telling her you don't want to see her again until she's a free woman. Because it sounds like she's getting what she wants out of this, so why would she be interested in making her life difficult by finishing with the boyfriend?

If this means you never see her again, then at least you've salvaged some pride and proved that you are a man.

Answer 4

Send him the other guy some flower with a card saying thanks for you for a hot night you were great love tammy (tammy isn't real) Make sure the other girl is around. Don't for get no paper trail. Also you could send a call girl to his home when you is around. Then you will be there to pick up the piece. Yes this is mean but you are in love and there is to many bitches out there that say I want a nice loving guy. And they allways go with the jerks. I ask you why.

Or you could leave it alone and hope she come to her sences

Answer 5

It's possible that this is your opinion and not hers. Surely hers is the one that counts. If you really are the better man, and she has enough sense to see it, she will see it.
Of course there may always be a better girlfriend out there, e.g. one who doesn't already have a boyfriend??

Answer 6

You can't mate, only she can see that for herself.

All you can do is be yourself and be the best man as you can, then fate and destiny will play its part.

If things don't work out then hold your head up high, keep smiling and follow your dreams.

Good luck my friend

Answer 7

She will decide who the better man is. But sometimes the decision could be wrong.

Answer 8

YOU DONT NEED TO PROVE ANYTHING JUST BE YOURSELF WHEN I MET MY FIANCE SHE WAS WITH A LAD SHE HAD BEEN WITH FOR 6 YRS ALL THAT I DID WAS TAKE HER OUT FOR DRINKS TALKED ALOT AND WAS MY USUAL SELF IFF SHE LIKES YOU SHE WILL COME TO YOU JUST HAVE 2 BIDE YOUR TIME AND BE YOURSELF

Answer 9

Idoubt if anyone here has your answer, you are asking if we can explain how love works, and it would appear it has no relationship to how good bad you are...best be yourself..and trust to fate.

Answer 10

buy her a porsche, big diamond ring and a channel handbag, chicks luv all that stuff