Okay, firstly I am a Christian (not very good one) but before I decided that path of live I was bisexual. My best mate is gay and I have known him 7 years. Lately ive been having feelings for him which makes me feel hypoctritical being a supposed christian. I don't know whether to follow my heart and ask risking ruining 7 years of friendship or leave it.
2007-01-01 00:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by Philip T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Where in the bible does it say that it is wrong to be gay?
2007-01-01 00:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats a tough one. well have you noticed if he acts interested in you too?? if so then act on it but go slow at first changing the relationship can be weird at first. if you don't know if he has feelings for you too then sit down and just talk to him. 7 years is to long for him to be affended or push you away, if your honest and not pushy he will understand. just tell him how you feel without coming on too strong and see where it leads. as for being a christian, i am too and i know God loves us and wants us to be happy but he also wants us to come to him with things like this. pray and ask him for his guidence and trust that whatever he says will be the right answer. i will pray for you too.
2007-01-01 08:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray about it, you will get the answer. But just out of personal experience, if you have to think about it more than a few times, the answer is usually no. Just a little advice. Good Luck and Happy New Year!!
2007-01-01 08:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY FOR ASKING BUT ARE THERE GOOD OR BAD CHRISTIANS NOW? I SORRY ABOUT YOUR SITUATION.IM SORRY BUT SOMETIMES WE GIVE THE CHURCH MORE OF A FOOTHOLD IN OUR LIFE THAN WE GIVE GOD.I THINK GOD WANTED ALL HIS CHILDREN TO BE HAPPY AS LONG AS WE DONT INTENTIONALLY HURT ANYONE.HOW IN THE WORLD CAN YOU BEING GAY HURT ANYONE.THERE ARE MORE PEOPLE IN THE CHURCH THAT ARE HYPOCRITICAL THAN YOU KNOW.DONT LIVE FOR CHURCH LIVE FOR GOD AND YOUR LIFE PLEASING IN HIS SIGHT.NOW IF YOU ARE FRIENDS FOR THAT LONG I THINK IT IS WORTH A TRY FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND BE HAPPY AND MAKE SURE THAT IF IT DONT WORTH OUT AT LEAST YOU GUYS HAVE A FRIENDSHIP TUCK AWAY IN THE BAG. ALL THE BEST FOR THE NEW YEAR.
2007-01-01 08:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Grace R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a hypocrite. We have all done things before Christ that keep pulling at us. True friends are too hard to find. Please pray about this and don't let anyone make you feel bad. You are a child of God, you are royalty. Blessings to you and yours this New Year.
2007-01-01 08:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that' impossible-to-live-by-christianity' and do what your heart tells you to do. This supposed 'god' loves everybody just as "he" made you. Besides, if you are feleling more guilt than love for that so called "faith", then it's not for you, anyway. Christians are haters, think about it.
2007-01-01 08:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Christian person get to praying for under standing
2007-01-01 08:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk in His path.
2007-01-01 08:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that. In live to be happy you have to love and be loved.
2007-01-01 08:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what the Lord tells you to do.
2007-01-01 08:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by hannahgardner13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋