I have talked to a guy over msn for several months now, but since we live so far apart, we've only met once. we often talk over the phone, and every day on msn! It turns out we both like each other alot, but we don't know what to do about it, because he lives at least a two hour plane flight away! Should we try things and see how they go, or put out the flame before it starts?
2007-01-01 00:19:02 · 16 answers · asked by luvs itt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships have the potential to work if the two of you are both truly in love and determined to stay together. Be careful, because it often depends on the person. if your potential partner gets bored of the same thing easily, maybe you should stop things before they get too far. but if you can truly trust them, than this could work! don't forget that each of you will have to put in effort to see each other, and call as often as you can. always let the other person know how much you care about them and how much you hope that you can make things work between you! I wish you luck!!
2007-01-01 12:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Maybe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, Relationships that are 20 miles or more from where you live, shouldn't be much. I had about 3 of them. I had a girl I met on tagged who was from Michigan. We both loved eachother a lot, but we came to breaking up because she was still in her soph year of school and I wasn't gonna move away after I graduate, and I am not a big fan of the Great lakes. Too cold up there along with lake effect snow and chilly weather. I also had 2 from about 25 miles from me and both of us only lasted for a month. These two tried cheating on me during the relationship. The first one ended up saying I called her a slut which I dont recall and never would call a girl that. The other one I called a ***** to after finding out she was trying to think some other guy was sexier than me, during our relationship. Besides that me and the one from Michigan really loved eachother, but I just felt like things were gonna flow fast for us. This is my 2 cents and I hope they help answer this question.
2007-01-01 08:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, I believe that it will take the commitment of both parties to make a relationship works, whether it is long or short distance is secondary. Long distance relationships do work because the two parties truly love each other and are committed to making the relationship works. If one of the parties fails to do so, that will likely be the end of any relationship, be it long or short. I wish you the very best!
2007-01-01 08:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been in one, but I don't see how they can work. You really don't know someone until you spend time with them. I would put the flame out before it starts. Besides if it does work out are you or him willing to relocate?
2007-01-01 08:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they work if you want them to work --- im 24 hours by plane away --- in your case 2 hours is a lot further --- do you make the jump and someone moves closer to the other --- ive known a couple that was like that and he moved closer so they could be married
i say 2 hours is further because its easier to make the move if the distance is larger
2007-01-01 08:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless one of you will move to be with the other you sh ould put the flame out.
2007-01-01 08:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your mate anything is possible. I know that I may be in one soon but I know that I love my partner and I will do anything to be with him including wait til we can be together again.
2007-01-01 08:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by ALEISIA B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like you guys have to hook up, if there's magic some one has to move, you both need a mate to be intimate with, without contact you will both be frustrated without physical intimacy.
2007-01-01 08:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really...it's rare!
Physically intimacy is important part of a growing relationship and human beings need affection and attention.
Good luck
2007-01-01 08:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
two hours of plane flight is nothing dear....try 17 hours of plane filght...
2007-01-01 08:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋