I have been with my fiancee for a while. Recently, I have taken an interest in the panties that she wears (usually the really pretty, silky ones from victorias secret). I'm so curious to try them on as part of our bedroom activities. I'm totally straight and have no desire to be a woman or anything like that (nor do I want to go around wearing them all day long). Its just that the idea of trying on something of hers thats so intimate and forbidden really excites me. How do I approach her about it? If shes not sure about it or opposed to it, how do I get her to accept it? Please help because its something I really really want to do and share with her (hopefully without freaking her out). Thanks.
2007-01-01 00:06:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she loves you and it turns you on go for it if she says its weird tell her to put them on for you and im sure its not going to be an issue if its just a fantasy bedroom thing if she caught you doing it behind her back then she would probably freak out a bit but i like wearing mens undies they are comfy, sweetie there is nothing wrong with exploring your sexual side just play with it make it funny for her then when you both get turned on make it wild and hot for her she wont complain. Hope this helps.....
2007-01-01 00:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is very simple and complicated at the same time. You guys are going to be married. You have have to learn to talk to each other about the different things you would like todo and try. I am sure there are things she is wanting to do as well, and may be a little scared to tell you about. Sex is supposed to be fun. Married people should enjoy it, and enjoy trying things with each other. But it all comes down to you and her getting comfortable enough to share those thoughts and desires. If you can't do that with the person you are to married to I would examine the relationship a little.
2007-01-01 00:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You WILL freak her out ! I think you're a gay boy, AND you are probably stretching out her underwear ! You need to have a talk with her. You are bringing something into the marriage she wasn't counting on, and she can get her marriage annulled , or whatever, over this. If I saw my man do this, I would never be the same ! I think it's important for real men to be real men.
2007-01-01 00:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her like you've told us. If you reassure her that you are not gay or have any desire to wear her clothes apart from trying on her panties in the bedroom, I am sure that she will have a giggle and go along with it.
If she is opposed to it, don't push the issue. It will only drive you apart then.
Good luck!
2007-01-01 00:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, don't tell her, don't ask her, don't wear it. She'll never forget that and it'll only give your girl some doubts about your gender preference, maybe not now but it could be in the future. Of course ideally, the girl could understand your point if and only if youre a good speaker, but i doubt it, *ah ah*.
If you wanna try how it feels to wear a satin panty, buy yourself one, tell the salesperson its for your girlfriend.
2007-01-01 00:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're really too shy to ask her in person, SIMPLE. just ask her to come yahoo answers and look for "women's opinion needed. Afraid to ask?" Ask her to read the question.
of corse, change your name, to you real name, just for that while, and mayb you can edit your question. Name your fiancee on your question. I think, seeing someone called the same as you(bcause it's you anyway), and seeing her name on the question, should be pretty obvious that it was asked by you, and she will... um, im not sure about what happens later.
Ive already told you how to ask her already. Anything that happens later, is none of my business. so good luck.
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2016-10-19 07:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is important that you share with her your thoughts. If she runs away after this, be it. You can then move on and find another girl that could accept you for who you are.
2007-01-01 00:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by gchezmoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really wanted to imagine my self doing the same so i can answer your question but i can't even think how to convince my self to do what you want,an easy way to do it go and buy one for you and don't tell anybody and try it alone,and don't even think to ask this question again IF YOU ARE STRAIGHT.
2007-01-01 00:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by chack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and if she freaks out, then get over it. Honestly, I would think my b/f was weird if he asked me something like that. Good Luck.
2007-01-01 00:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋