what is this situation......in sex he taks about me being laid by another man...........are thse kinds of things hapening?if im to do so....what shd i do?? what are the rules...?i need to talk more about this....please message me...my d is-jessy_reeds@yahoo.com
2006-12-31 22:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jessy, Jessy Jessy.
Its completely normal for him to fantasise like this, but not to expect you to act on it.
Its HIS fantasy. Many men have the same one, it is a compliment to you that he thinks other men want you.
The best way to handle it is to play out the fantasy with him, when he and you are together next time tell him you thought about it and this is what your mind conjured up.....
DON'T involve real names or old boyfriends,
FANTASIZE with him . If his expectation is for you to really sleep with other men, carefully consider how much he cherishes you to put you at risk like that.
2006-12-31 22:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Fred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him to grow up or your out of here and no coming back.
Respect and integrity are the main two things in marriage and from what you are saying neither is aparent.
Take care!
Happy New Year.
2007-01-01 06:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal. You need to ask him why is he acting this way especially if this is not normal for him. Any man I have ever known does not want their wife to flirt with other guys.
2007-01-01 06:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by MusicWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme guess... he wasn't like this when you two were dating, right?
Interesting pick for a husband.
I think you should pack up and go back to mom and pop's. Get out of this mess...and fast!
2007-01-01 06:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by tobiemonterrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are a blatant liar to justify your polygamy or its that your fool of a husband is finding a way for extra marital coitus!! In eiter way, its not socially acceptable!!!
2007-01-01 06:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Jessy you just have to flirt. Go on.
2007-01-01 06:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better take him to a good psychiatrist...! today its u..tomorrow maybe the children...!!!
2007-01-01 06:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by rufiboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's something not turning round!!!
2007-01-01 06:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by kirktad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the one you should talk to not us ...
2007-01-01 06:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by MENTALLY UNSTABLE MAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you dont like it tell him.
2007-01-01 06:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋