I have been out with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Before we started the dating, he told me he really like this girl at Uni. But things didn't work out because she went back to her country. Recently, when I went over to his place I saw a book on desk on how to make Birthday cards. I knew he was thinking of making a card for the girl because her birthday was coming up. But I didnt ask him if that was the case.
But I jst feel so upset that he doesnt put any effort in doing something like that for me. What should I do without being too direct? Pls give any advise...
2006-12-31 21:57:45 · 15 answers · asked by SL S7 DC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would approach him about the subject.
If you sit letting your imagination go haywire you can create problems.
Take care
!Happy New Year.
2006-12-31 22:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are jealous but there isn't anything wrong with feeling that way. Sometimes jealously is normal, like in this situation!
Normally it takes time for a guy to get over his last girl friend if things didn't work out. You might have to give him time if he still isn't over her
2006-12-31 22:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by lynneboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes you feel unhappy for just 1 minute, you have just wasted 1 minute of your life.
I've just got out of a 2 year relationship and I'm so glad I did it. I'm so much happier now and its made me realise how unhappy I was whilst with him, which I wasn't aware of at the time.
If you don't trust him, you need to seriously consider what you want out of the relationship, and what you're getting.
Good luck =)
2006-12-31 22:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was exactly th same with my boyfriends ex. She was way prettier and skinnier than me! But hey - I realised that he is with me not her - ah!
You should feel the same! If you want to approach the subject, ask if you can help him with his card making - then it will be much more open with nothing to hide. Hope this helps x
2006-12-31 22:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gal, you aint jealous. this dude is thinkin about his former gal. If she reappears in town, am sure he'll dump you like a used rag. Try to test his love for you, try making him feel jealousy. tell him for instance you met me on the networks and I've been tryin to flirt! Watch his reactions. Does he seem worried, unaffected, indifferent, affected, etc? I suspect that given the facts on the table, he'll probably be indiffrent.
2006-12-31 22:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by ari-pup 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been 2 years and he's STILL "thinking" about that girl, I'd be moving on to someone who wanted to think about me!
2006-12-31 22:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your jealouse if shes thousands of miles away who cares, BUT on the other hand I see your point about him not putting effort for you I could just be that hes not that into you maybe you should dump him
2006-12-31 22:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just calmly explain to him what is bothering you, if he is a good guy he will understand, or at least try his best to. Just don't sound insane and be honest. It's always worked for me.
2006-12-31 22:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lot's Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him does he want to plan something on ur birthday but say the date and see if he notices.
2006-12-31 22:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by obxbeachhottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm just ask him. tell him how u feel. maybe he doesnt know hes doing this. remember, theres 2 sides to every story.
2006-12-31 22:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Laura Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋