What should you think of guy who leaves you and put all the blame on you? I still love him but he doesn't want me. One i'm heartbroken and two: to top it all he says i'm to be blame. Please help me feel better about this! :(
2006-12-31 21:39:14 · 17 answers · asked by r33 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he didn't appreciated whatever you did for him I think, he wasn't happy with you. Men are like that, they always blame their girls for everything.
Good Luck in finding yourself another boyfriend. if he still loves you and sees you dating other men, he'll feel jealous.
when you get yourself in another relationship, write poems about your feelings to the guy, at times be a little romantic.
I think guys like and appreciate their girls surprising them and being a little romantic or flirty. I think this probably will help you in the next relationship.
Good Luck !!!
2007-01-02 10:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by haseen_gudiya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here are a few reasons, which I sincerely hope, will make you feel better: -
1. You must accept this break up, as the will of God Who knows what’s best for us. Very often you girls get blinded by love and over look glaring short falls in your men only to pay a very heavy price later.
2. Isn’t it better that this break up happened now rather than latter when you guys could have been married and had a kid or two?
3. Since he is adamant about blaming you for the break up. Why should it matter? Just start believing that it is you that threw him out of your life as unworthy of your love
4. Don’t believe that you are still in love with him…believe that you like being in love so fill the vacancy only this time choose wisely.
5. Thank God that you could shed your extra baggage in the old year and began this New Year 2007 with the hope that you may find your own private little Heaven.
I really feel you should be Thankful to God for saving you from what would have been a disaster. You now have a second chance to find the right guy. There are thousands of women trapped in horrible marriages. Best of Luck. May God Continue to Bless you
2007-01-01 14:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who leaves and puts all the blame on you without looking at his own behavior is simply trying to find a scapegoat. In most relationships that fail, there is a little bit of fault on both sides, along with simple incompatibility.
There isn't any reason for you to think that he's being straightforward. Most likely, he just can't take responsibility for his own actions, and would rather place the blame for his failure on you. Don't let that become something you dwell on. Instead, realize that you have been released from someone who obviously wasn't ready to be adult about your relationship.
If he comes back to you, and you choose to accept him back, realize that this issue is one you'll have to face, and try to work through it with him. Otherwise, step out of the relationship knowing that you were by far the better person.
2007-01-01 05:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by fairygothmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes an idiot. It always takes two to tango meaning he has to take part blame. If not then HEs in denial and needs to get over himself and YOU, need to move on. Theres a 100 men out there just willing to accept you for how you are and ready to pamper you and love you with all they've got. So when you've gotten past the mourning over this jerk put out the available sign and watch the magic happen.
Dont stay in the depression mode to long because life is to short and noone is worth your sanity
2007-01-01 05:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Truth D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time WILL heal the heartache. Don't take ANY guilt trips from ANYONE EVER!!! Learn that whatever someone else does is THEIR choice, and what people choose or don't choose is not a reflection of our worth as a person. He has to put the blame somewhere because he isn't mature enough to accept responsibility for his own actions. Good luck!
2007-01-01 05:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tweet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't worry sweetheart just wait and watch for the right time and u will have him for what he has done he will come back for u and just hope the god is there for all good and the bad and be sure that u don't have to make any moves for anything just have patiences and watch all the best and don't make a small heart believe in love and wait coz iam doin the same thing since last 2years bye for now if u have any problems pls feel free to ask me any thing on my email khaleelullashariff@yahoo.com
2007-01-01 06:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by raf's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is blaming you to make himself feel like the good guy. Spend time with friends and family to get your mind off of him. It does hurt to be rejected but dont let that make you think your not good enough or not worthy to be loved. Give your love to someone that will love you.
2007-01-01 05:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by goodyj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and move it along!! If you were doing everything right then he's the one to blame. Take some rest for yourself and look for someone new.
2007-01-01 05:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Delaiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserved better. I think your ex is a playah who just wants to end it and make it look like its your fault so that he can find another girl to have sex with. I hope you will find the right one. That bad boy doesnt deserve you. You dont have to worry if you havent done anything wrong, just keep your head up and move on.
2007-01-01 05:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by babushcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is to blame but he has to lay that guilt on you to make him feel better. just move on, everybody hurts at least once, you will get over him and find another guy that will make you wonder what you ever saw in this idiot.
2007-01-01 05:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋