okay so i founf out that my boyfriend had a onenight satand with my friend while we were temporarily broken up last week should i be mad?
2006-12-31 21:16:04 · 18 answers · asked by saray 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the question is should you still love him? being mad is a natural reaction because he cheated you. If the guy trully loves you then he will be sticking to only one girl and that is YOU. he will respect you and the relationship. he will not hurt you at all cause. focus yourself more in developing your future not in this kind of things. having to love somebody is a gift from God every one has a destined partner so you don't need to rush and push yourself on to this. God bless you.
2006-12-31 21:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by KRISTOFFER D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... he couldn't hold out for a week eh? Apparently he was retaliating for the break-up... or he was itching to try something dfiferent. Either way, I'd take a reconciliation with the man VERY slowly.... while you WERE broken up... it sounds like he might be training YOU to accept his way of "legally" cheating... by breaking up with you, sleeping with another girl.. then getting back together. Hold YOUR head up high and be worth more than that. NOW... you need to deal with the issue that your FRIEND slept with your boyfriend/ex-boyfriend. That is a definite no-no. It just gets waaaay toooo messy when you start sharing men... I would question the level of comittment your friend has to your friendship... sounds like SHE was waiting in the wings... hmmmm....
2007-01-01 05:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were broken up so yea you can be mad but he didnt cheat because you were broken up at the time so its not cheating. most the time when you hear the words "i want a break" it ends with not being together... or the girl has no problem haveing the 1 night stand with a guy but she has a problem with the guy having a 1 night stand. get over it. you were not together so its not cheating
2007-01-01 05:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a difficult one, considering you were both separated at the time, but for him to sleep with YOUR FRIEND??? UUugh...
I wouldn't take that guy back! He was pretty quick to find someone, and he did, alright..someone YOU knew, too!! Have you talked to your so-called 'friend' about this, too?
it works both ways, and you need to discuss this with both the boyfriend and your friend about what happened. If you guys were only separated for less than a week, and he went out and found someone that quick..I wouldn't trust him any more...that trust went out the door the second you called it off, and he had one thing on his mind.
Maybe he did that to get back at you, but even then, that's just plain nasty of him!!
Ask your so-called 'friend', "Was it worth getting the sloppy seconds??"
2007-01-01 05:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by argamedius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you want to be angry with him???? Why??? U left him and he needed some love and guest who came along????? Your friend who saw that he must have been a stud and decided to have a go with him. Now are you back with him?? Why ??? You still love him right!!!! Take him into the toilet and give him the toilet brush to clean himself and then get yourself together and pray that U do not break up in 2007.
2007-01-01 05:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by daljitsb2002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey!!! 1st you tell me-------
WHAT IS THIS ""TEMORARILY BROKE DOWN""""
If u were broken down than u should not react to this thing.
Because now u are supposed to be start ur life "without him"
The thing ur ex-bf did is ""totally wrong""--- I agree to this.
&&& This shows that he is not at all a good guy.
So, I suggest u to ""Forget him""" & do not get tensed.
Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-01 05:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with him will definitely not withstand the test of time. He will cheat again, probably with any one of your friends, whenever he could find an excuse to do so.
2007-01-01 05:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Alfretz T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broken up, then no. But I wouldn't be getting back together with him if he was so quick to do it with a friend of mine!!!
2007-01-01 05:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were broken up then he didn't cheat and i would no longer be calling her a friend.
2007-01-01 05:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great way to Start the Year huh.
2007-01-01 05:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by RR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋