What are you supposed to do as a guy when you are nice to girls but only want to be friends with them? I like to have a mix of friends. Not just guys. I don't treat girls and guys any different, i just try to be a nice, funny outgoing person to every1.
The problem is, i give out vibes to girls that i'm interested in them or they end up liking me, whereas all im interested in is being their friend.
So i msg them, tell them i think they're cool, go out to coffee or movies etc but i do this with guys too. I'm not gay, i just only like 1 girl at a time. They get the wrong picture and well... they get all cut about it. Wtf am i supposed to do? Why can't i just be nice lol, it makes it awkward and i end up just avoiding them when things heat up... It then hurts me because i thought they were really gr8 ppl but awkwardness ruins our friendship. I'm guessing you just can't be friends with the opposite sex because it goes in the wrong kinda direction :S
2006-12-31 20:31:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok im an expert at this...kind of accidentally but w/e... ok start hanging out with them and ACT LIKE A GIRL...this sounds stupid but iot pays off trust me when they talk about clothes or guyz nod along dont really say anything be funny just act like yourself... make sure to be friendly to the girelz friends too...talk to them like their ur best friend or somin and talk about other girlz not like freakishly pervil;y or obsesivly but like talk about ur last gf or somethiong or a girl u like stuff like that say like o that girlz hot or a storyu about a girl that was hot... ESPECIALLY if they talk about guyz around u. also try hooking her up with someone that ALWAYZ works they instantly no u dont want them and thats a major turn off lol...just be careful with that dnt be like OMG THIS GUY ULL LOVE HIM GO HANG OUT WITH HIM!!!! kinda say stuff like o u guyz might get along maybe hed make a good bf or somin like that...
It alwayz works for me hope it works for you XD
2006-12-31 20:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey were in the same situation....n well im in a case worse than yors guys don wana go out wid me cause they think im a flirt..cant help it i jus love making frenz n i get along better wid guys... so bassicaly if u ask them out to a movie or coffe jus ask the whole group n talk to the girls abt a gal u like then theyl kno u don like them n well i jus treat all the guys like my brother so its safer u kno.... treat the galls like a sis or sumthin...n the lil things u do hav a major effect on them get 1 a gift get em all except say its for there birthday.... n don worry let ppl kno u juis love to make frenz.... my frenz soon understood n seriously dats no reason to not make frenz wid galls jus get the msg thru b4 u make frenz
2006-12-31 21:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by thelibrandiva_666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough world out there! Don't be too touchy-feely with girls & don't send cutesy text messages either. Those kinds of things give the wrong signals to a girl.
Good luck!
2006-12-31 20:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by funkychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the same nice social guy to them and tell them what you just told us, if they're reasonable they will understand why you want to have a friendship only relationship.
2006-12-31 21:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by PKs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl gonna like you for being funny and nice someday they get over you.......you could try getting a girlfriend
2006-12-31 20:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to be too outgoing just be calm around them or
you can act like you are gay to them
2006-12-31 20:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by c.m.t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, I only wish I had a guy friend like you that would only want friendship :) :) :)
2006-12-31 20:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's impossible.
2006-12-31 20:42:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋