we have been dating for 8 months.
2006-12-31 20:28:27 · 23 answers · asked by bill clinton 2nd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can you tell her ANYTHING? If so then yes I think so
2006-12-31 20:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a ton of other factors when considering purposing other than the length of time you have been dating! I believe that a happy marriage only takes a few months of dating once you are sure you will be happy for the rest of your life.
Here are some things to consider:
-How much time do you spend together now? if you aren't together almost daily and sometimes overnight, you may not know your girlfriends habbits that you will find out once you live together.
-Why are you thinking about purposing? does she bug you about it, or your friends/family? is it something you feel like you have to do or is it from your heart?
-have you talked about marriage seriously with her? if it's a total suprise to her and she hasn't even mentioned getting married, maybe she doesn't want to.
-how long will you be engaged? maybe it is a good idea to let her know you are very, very serious about marrying her and then letting the engagement period be a long one for you to make sure and just spend a little more time with her.
2006-12-31 20:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by seeingidog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no to soon wait until you have been dating for a year (or in feb on the 14 propose). depends how u feel about each other don't go too fast or slow with it . Wait for the right moment and have a nice ring ready.
2006-12-31 20:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Rosa_evil_twin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married just after few months of dating my man and now 4 years later we're still madly in love and having a good time ;)
I knew for my self its the best choice and now looking back I think damn I was right because I listened to my heart not to what others say...
2006-12-31 20:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you love her and she loves you enough to make that big commitment then sure get married. But maybe you two should sit down and talk about what you really want out of life first before you decide to be a "team"
2006-12-31 20:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by *Benny B* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe u should not. u should give urself more time, coz its a lifetime commitment.its not like to hv a meal.but if u think u've spend enough time with her n u understand her verywell & more importantly u can hv her as ur wife 4 life long then GO 4 IT.
ALL THE BEST
2006-12-31 20:43:56 · answer #6 · answered by NIK COOL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, no guy has ever lasted over a year with me, except one. The one I am engaged to now. It was a sign, atleast wait until after the year mark. Many have gotten really close, but we broke up before year and it wasn't meant to be. After a year, you see their true colors.
2006-12-31 20:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely propose.
2006-12-31 20:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why oh why are you putting this much power into the hands of strangers? I do not know you are Asking without giving details. I just came from a new year party. I want to yell at you. Ask her if you think it's time. Talk to her. not me.
2006-12-31 20:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have had a good healthy relationship and you want to take it to the next step then bring up the topic sometime and see what happens
2006-12-31 20:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. in some cases id have to say to wait atleast a year but if you really love this girl and want to spend the rest of your life with her then go for it. your heart will give you the answer.
2006-12-31 20:35:22 · answer #11 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋