I posted this question:
after dating a guy for about 8 months we broke up and then we continued being friends..."things" happened (u can read my last question to find out the "things") and we're not friends anymore it's been a couple of days since we've been in contact with each other.... I can't stop thinking about him...some days i cry about him, some days i don't, some days i'll have lots of fun but at the end of each day i still want to be with him and he's the last person on my mind before i go to bed :( Whenever I'm driving if i'm in an area that i think he might be i'm always looking around to see if i happen to spot him....what should i do???
some of the replies were:
date him again...but what if he doesn't want to
f&?k him.......what if i did that and i still have feeling for him
call him....if he changed his phone # and hasn't contacted me don't you think he doesn't want me to call him
so what should i do now??
Thanks for all replies!!
2006-12-31 20:25:57 · 5 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about the loser.
2006-12-31 20:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with someone for 2 1/2 years and I was feeling the same way as you are, doing the same little things and its very hard. It took me a good 2 months to really not hurt like I was - It just takes time - Eventually you will need to start dating again, when you find someone to fill that void you'll be better and actually will think about the bad sides of him.
Nothing you will do will make you stop thinking about him, you'll always have a love inside you for him but in time your pain will fade and you'll move on.
Its love - it can be the best thing ever or it can crush you
2007-01-01 04:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married and had to get a divorce. I have known my husband for 8 years while the cop was calling me a ho. Now we have been separated now for 2 years. He wanted to get back together but i have to go to the judge and be asked why i didn't treat my first boyfriend right. Because he lives in Florida. The cop said any female living in a house was a ho. The cop told me i was a ho at 5 years old. So don't worry.
2007-01-01 04:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by rosemships 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously not learning your lessons too well. Any guy, if he doesn't love a girl that he used to go with and obviously went with her for the sex, will jump at the chance to bed an ex over and over again. Face it, you were nothing but an empty. Go find someone that really loves you and stop wasting your time on someone who doesn't love you!
2007-01-01 04:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for a response that only you approve of...you're wanting confirmation that this kind of behavior is healthy. It's not going to happen, hun...
2007-01-01 04:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Detroit Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋