I just broke up with my boyfriend, it was the hardest decision I've ever had to make in my life so far, we live completely different lives and it just wasn't working out and I couldn't see it ever working. I hate it, I think about him a lot and I'm missing him now. It's a complicated situation so I don't wanna bore you to death with all the details but I'm feeling very down right now and need someone to hold me....not a good start to the new year, hopefully everything will turn out alright in the end. x x
2006-12-31 20:18:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't see an ending relationship as a good thing but maybe with the new year you can start over. That is what new years is for right? Maybe this isn't an ending but a beginning
2006-12-31 20:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the holiday season is not always the best time for relationships, you are going through a very tough time during a part of the year that tends to push "being together".
If you have a good friend who can be there to give you a hug and moral support you will feel a lot better, find something that you like to do and enjoy yourself that is the best way to meet someone new in a casual manner while allowing yourself to mend and heal from any post-relationship wounds.
Also have a happy new year, and remember it is a new opportunity for finding joy and perhaps a hot new boyfriend.
2007-01-01 04:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by PKs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you can "bore me" whenever you feel the urge and also it is a AWESOME start of a new year! New years and new beginnings! Before you jump into another relationship, take time to realize why this one failed. As they say in school and we say "blah blah blah" whatever, teachers don't know squat but its true....those who don't learn from the past are destined to repeat it! If you don't figure out exactly what went wrong and where, you will only start up another relationship making the same mistakes again or falling for the same mistakes. Get to know yourself and what makes you happy. It will help! I swear! If you need someone to talk to my email is sixfoot8bkr@yahoo.com! I'd love to help you out all I can! I am no psychologist but I have an ear if you want it!! (not like Van Gogh though!)
2007-01-01 04:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sympathetic, I'll listen. But there's only one thing that partially mends a broken heart and that's time. I say partially because once you have given your heart to someone, it never comes back complete. It gets damaged. But falling in love again can hide those little dents and scratches. Be positive, by coming to the decision you did, you're obviously very intelligent. Use that as your strength, it won't let you down. Cheers!
2007-01-01 04:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that things will work out for the best for you. I have had MANY break ups, and close calls...but sometimes you gotta just move on. Keep yourself busy, and I mean BUSY!
Another thing...you made the decision...so you need to realize that YOU DID IT TO YOURSELF. Yes you were both having problems with "different lives." But you made the decision.
One thing about me and my girlfried is that we have differen lives. I wake up at different times than her, we eat differently at different schedules, I am in a fraternity and she is not...just a LOT. We broke up for a week about us being different...but we came back because we realized that it didnt matter. So maybe you should have spoken to him abuot the problem before ending it.
2007-01-01 04:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Crizzle Gizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you heal up from this guy, you are not ready for your next guy. Sorry but to enter a relationship with a broken heart means you do not have a healthy heart to give to your next guy. Go to bed and snuggle your pillow tonight and in the morning go buy a dog or cat.
2007-01-01 04:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you have to go through this right now. Holidays suck for break ups. I hope you find your inner peace and strength to get through it. If you made your decision you must have had plenty of reasons why. Be with family and friends and try not to think about him.
-My gandmother used to tell me: "This too shall pass."
Bellboy telling Julia Roberts in the movie "My Best Friends Wedding"
2007-01-01 04:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Marc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New Year with a new start! It sounds more like a good start than bad.
2007-01-01 04:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm willing to listen and to help you out. I'll try my best to heal your broken heart if it's ok with you...you have facebook?
2007-01-01 04:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you take a grace period and try to think of what ou really want in this new guy you want in your life, you dont want to end with the same situation in few months.
2007-01-01 04:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋